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		<title>Love What You Do Or Do Something Else</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 01:08:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melodie Kantner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It may seem a little harsh but I'm telling you now, if you don't love what you do, you don't have much chance for success in network marketing. The failure rate is pretty high in this industry but you CAN increase your odds for success. 
<P>
Well, first thing is, let's lose that word ODDS. It's not about odds. It's about YOU and what you do, but one thing that is a major help in your success is liking what you do. 
<P>
Those who are really successful in network marketing really love what they are doing. Not only do they like the network marketing industry and the company they are with but they also love marketing and promoting their business. 
<P>
That's the part I want to talk to you about today. Actually finding pleasure in marketing your business. I heard someone say once, "Find the work you love, and the compensation will follow."  That can be applied to the type of marketing you choose to promote your business. There are LOTS of ways to do that. 
<P>
When I first began my network marketing career 17 years ago I was in a company that was not right for me and I hated what I was doing. They had us doing hotel meetings, 3 way calls on friends and family and other things that just did NOT fit my style. I stuck with that first company for 2 years until I just could not continue. I really did not like what I was doing. I loved the idea of working from home and having time and financial freedom but it seemed like something unattainable. 
<P>
When another opportunity came along that felt like a better fit, I decided to give it another go. This time I would do things in a way that felt comfortable to me. That was 15 years ago and I am very glad I didn't give up on my dreams to work from home. 
<P>
The key for me was to learn ways to market my business that I could really enjoy. I needed to get people coming to me.  I had no intention of chasing after people. 
<P>
There are LOTS of ways to market your business and get leads coming to you. Find the ones that fit your style. Get your systems in place. Learn the skills and the mindset you need, then practice until you get better.     
<P>
The best training I have found that covers most everything a serious network marketer needs is <a href="http://mlsptestdrive.com">MyLeadSystemPro</a>. 
<P>
The more you love what you are doing, the more successful it will be for you.
<P>
I invite you to try a 14 day test drive:  ==>  <a href="http://mlsptestdrive.com">http://mlsptestdrive.com</a>

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It may seem a little harsh but I&#8217;m telling you now, if you don&#8217;t love what you do, you don&#8217;t have much chance for success in network marketing. The failure rate is pretty high in this industry but <strong>you CAN increase your odds for success</strong>.<br />
<P><br />
Well, first thing is, let&#8217;s lose that word ODDS. It&#8217;s not about odds. It&#8217;s about YOU and what you do, but one thing that is a <strong>major help in your success is liking what you do</strong>.<br />
<P><br />
<img src="http://melodiekantner.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/enjoy-marketing.jpg" alt="" title="enjoy-marketing" width="176" height="200" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-808" />Those who are really successful in network marketing really <strong>love what they are doing</strong>. Not only do they like the network marketing industry and the company they are with but they also love marketing and promoting their business.<br />
<P><br />
That&#8217;s the part I want to talk to you about today. Actually finding pleasure in marketing your business. I heard someone say once, &#8220;<strong>Find the work you love, and the compensation will follow</strong>.&#8221;  That can be applied to the type of marketing you choose to promote your business. There are LOTS of ways to do that.<br />
<P><br />
When I first began my network marketing career 17 years ago I was in a company that was not right for me and I hated what I was doing. They had us doing hotel meetings, 3 way calls on friends and family and other things that just <strong>did NOT fit my style</strong>. I stuck with that first company for 2 years until I just could not continue. I really did not like what I was doing. I loved the idea of working from home and having time and financial freedom but it seemed like something unattainable.<br />
<P><br />
When another opportunity came along that felt like a better fit, I decided to give it another go. This time I would do things in a way that felt comfortable to me. That was 15 years ago and I am very glad I didn&#8217;t give up on my dreams to work from home.<br />
<P><br />
The key for me was to <strong>learn ways to market my business that I could really <img src="http://melodiekantner.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/happy-business.jpg" alt="" title="happy-business" width="175" height="159" class="alignright size-full wp-image-809" />enjoy</strong>. I needed to get people coming to me.  I had no intention of chasing after people.<br />
<P><br />
There are LOTS of ways to market your business and get leads coming to you. Find the ones that fit your style. Get your systems in place. Learn the skills and the mindset you need, then practice until you get better.<br />
<P><br />
The best training I have found that covers most everything a serious network marketer needs is <a href="http://mlsptestdrive.com">MyLeadSystemPro</a>.<br />
<P><br />
The more you love what you are doing, the more successful it will be for you.<br />
<P><br />
I invite you to try a 14 day test drive:  ==>  <a href="http://mlsptestdrive.com">http://mlsptestdrive.com</a></p>
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		<title>I Can Make You Great or I Can Make You A Failure</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Sep 2011 19:54:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melodie Kantner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It's the habits you develop that determine your success in your business or anything else. 
<P>
As Jim Rohn said, "<strong>Work more on yourself than you work on your business</strong>." Working on personal development is one of the best habits you can form. Not only working on mindset but also working on the skills you need to become a professional in this business. 
<P>To <a href="http://melodiekantner.com/i-can-make-you-great-or-i-can-make-you-a-failure">read the rest of this article</a> visit the web site.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="float:right; height:68px;"><iframe id="mlmbeat_tbpv" src="http://thatmlmbeat.com/top_blog_posts.php?tbpv_id=649&tbpv_username=melodiekantner&tbpv_domain=melodiekantner.com&tbpv_button_style=1&tbpv_affiliate=78rhinomel&ref=78rhinomel" frameborder="0" width="60" height="68" scrolling="no"></iframe></div><p>WHO am I?<br />
<P><br />
Let me give you some clues. Exactly WHO IS ME?<br />
<P><br />
I am your constant companion.<br />
<P><br />
I am your greatest helper or heaviest burden.<br />
<P><br />
I will push you onward or drag you down to failure.<img src="http://abundanceofsecrets4success.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/watching-tv-habit.jpg" alt="" title="watching-tv-habit" width="125" height="150" class="alignright size-full wp-image-234" /><br />
<P><br />
I am completely at your command.<br />
<P><br />
Half of the things you do you might as well turn<br />
over to me and I will do them &#8211; quickly and correctly.<br />
<P><br />
I am easily managed &#8211; you must be firm with me.<br />
Show me exactly how you want something done<br />
and after a few lessons, I will do it automatically.<br />
<P><br />
I am the servant of great people, and alas, of all failures as well.<br />
<P><br />
I MAKE GREAT PEOPLE&#8212;-That is a CLUE.<br />
<P><br />
Those who are great, I have made great.<br />
<P><br />
Those who are failures, I have made failures.<br />
<P><br />
I am not a machine though, however . . .<br />
<P><br />
I work with the precision of a machine<br />
plus the intelligence of a person.<br />
<P><br />
You may run me for profit or run me for ruin -<br />
it makes no difference to me.<br />
<P><br />
Take me, train me, be firm with me, and<br />
I will place the world at your feet.<br />
<P><br />
Be easy with me and I will destroy you.<br />
<P><br />
Who am I?<br />
<P><br />
I am  <strong>HABIT</strong>.<br />
<P><br />
It&#8217;s the habits you develop that determine your success in your business or anything else.<br />
<P><br />
As Jim Rohn said, &#8220;<strong>Work more on yourself than you work on your business</strong>.&#8221; Working on personal development is one of the best habits you can form. Not only working on mindset but also working on the skills you need to become a professional in this business.<br />
<P><br />
Too often we see people sign up with a network marketing company thinking they will make money fast. It just doesn&#8217;t work that way. You have to learn the ropes. <strong>In any business there is a learning curve</strong>. There is training. Even if you work at McDonalds or Walmart, you have a training process to go through. You learn to take orders, run the cash register, learn about all the products, you learn how to deal with customers and a multitude of other things.<br />
<P><br />
There is a big difference in the learning you learn as a business owner. You are learning skills that can either make you rich or make you struggle and fail in your business.<br />
<P><br />
&#8220;You can never have, &#8220;do&#8221; or receive more than <strong>your own habits predict</strong>.&#8221;<br />
<P><br />
Ask yourself, What habits am I developing that will insure the success I want for myself and my family. Are my habits productive or are they getting in the way of my success? We all need a self evaluating sometimes. We all go through periods of time where we are needing a kick in the pants.<br />
<P><br />
<img src="http://abundanceofsecrets4success.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/09/reading.jpg" alt="" title="reading" width="150" height="125" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-235" /><strong>Here are a couple good habits we all should be doing every day</strong>:<P><br />
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<li><strong>Read a few pages of a good book every day</strong>. I&#8217;m not talking about a novel. I mean something that will develop success mindset or skills you need for business.  </li>
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<li><strong>Listen to training webinars</strong>. There are lots of excellent trainers out there that have awesome training. People who have built a successful business and share how they have done it. MyLeadSystemPro has some of the best trainers in the industry. They have <a href="http://melodiekantner.weeklymarketingwebinars.com">weekly webinars</a> that are absolutely off the hook. </li>
<p> </UL><P><br />
Why not join me in building million dollar habits today.<br />
<P> </p>
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		<title>Start The Day Off Right With Positive Focus</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Aug 2011 17:00:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melodie Kantner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is a good idea to focus a bit in the morning on what we want to accomplish for the day. Set our intent for the kind of day we want to have. 
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I made a very short video with a quick tip for getting your day started with good positive energy. 

<a href="http://melodiekantner.com/start-the-day-off-right">Watch HERE</a>
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<a href="http://melodiekantner.com/start-the-day-off-right">http://melodiekantner.com/start-the-day-off-right</a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="float:right; height:68px;"><iframe id="mlmbeat_tbpv" src="http://thatmlmbeat.com/top_blog_posts.php?tbpv_id=643&tbpv_username=melodiekantner&tbpv_domain=melodiekantner.com&tbpv_button_style=1&tbpv_affiliate=78rhinomel&ref=78rhinomel" frameborder="0" width="60" height="68" scrolling="no"></iframe></div><p>It is a good idea to focus a bit in the morning on what we want to accomplish for the day. Set our intent for the kind of day we want to have.<br />
<P><br />
Here is a quick tip for getting your day started with good positive energy:<br />
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Wishing you an Abundant Day,<br />
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P.S. Please <strong>click the share button</strong> if you feel this will help people you know.<br />
<P> Do you have any tips for getting your day off to an abundant start? Leave a comment and share your ideas.<br />
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		<title>How About This For A Morning Self Esteem Routine?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 May 2011 19:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melodie Kantner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A while back I saw this video and it struck me how this little girl's parents must have been teaching her to have good self esteem. Watch the video and the way this little girl is talking into the mirror and listen to what she is saying. 
<P>
<a href="http://melodiekantner.com/how-about-this-for-a-morning-self-esteem-routine">Click HERE to see the video</a>
 <P>
I think this morning routine is a good idea for all of us who are building self esteem. <strong>Repeating affirmations is a great way to reprogram your thinking but, even better is to tap the EFT Points while speaking your affirmations</strong>. This is much more powerful and sets the body's energy in alignment with what you are speaking. 
<P>
Try it! It's powerful!<P>
Wishing you Abundant Success,
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="float:right; height:68px;"><iframe id="mlmbeat_tbpv" src="http://thatmlmbeat.com/top_blog_posts.php?tbpv_id=164&tbpv_username=melodiekantner&tbpv_domain=melodiekantner.com&tbpv_button_style=1&tbpv_affiliate=78rhinomel&ref=78rhinomel" frameborder="0" width="60" height="68" scrolling="no"></iframe></div><p>A while back I saw this video and it struck me how this little girl&#8217;s parents must have been teaching her to have good self esteem. Watch the video and the way this little girl is talking into the mirror and listen to what she is saying.<br />
<P><br />
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<P><br />
I think this morning routine is a good idea for all of us who are building self esteem. <strong>Repeating affirmations is a great way to reprogram your thinking but, even better is to tap the EFT Points while speaking your affirmations</strong>. This is much more powerful and sets the body&#8217;s energy in alignment with what you are speaking.<br />
<P><br />
Try it! It&#8217;s powerful!<P><br />
Wishing you Abundant Success,<br />
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		<title>Self Talk, Self Esteem and EFT</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 May 2011 16:08:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melodie Kantner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There is a book I love and I encourage everyone who is serious about the success of their business to read. Actually, there are several I recommend but the book I am talking about is, <strong>What to Say When You Talk to Your Self</strong>, by Shad Helmstetter
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<img src="http://melodiekantner.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/self-talk-200x150.jpg" alt="" title="self-talk-200x150" width="200" height="150" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-124" />Your self talk has a powerful impact on your success in any endeavor but particularly when building your network marketing business. The words we are using all day long can either lift us or tear us down. <strong>Your self talk can either build our self esteem or ruin it. </strong>
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It is important to release the negative emotions and keep the energy in a positive state. <strong>Affirmations can be helpful in redirecting our thinking and self talk</strong>.  I like to <strong>enhance affirmations by tapping on the EFT points</strong> as I focus on the affirmations. You can use Emotional Freedom Technique to shift your energy to a more positive vibration. 
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The EFT Points<img src="http://melodiekantner.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/eft-points2.gif" alt="" title="eft-points2" width="150" height="450" class="alignright size-full wp-image-128" />
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KC = Karate Chop
EB = Beginning of the Eye Brow
SE = Side of the Eye
UE = Under the Eye
UN = Under the Nose
Ch = Chin
CB = Beginning of the Collar Bone
UA = Under the Arm
WR = Inside of Wrists
TH = Top of Head
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You can also tap the fingertip points. I sometimes tap these points discreetly when I am in public. Each finger can be tapped at the base of the nail.
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Think of a positive affirmation that will help shift your energy to a more confident one. <strong>Tap each point repeating the affirmation as you tap each point</strong>. You can say multiple affirmations as you are tapping if you choose. While you are doing this, try to keep a smile on your face. There is something about smiling that super charges this process. 
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Always be aware of the words you use and how they impact your self image or self esteem. 
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Wishing you Abundant Success,
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="float:right; height:68px;"><iframe id="mlmbeat_tbpv" src="http://thatmlmbeat.com/top_blog_posts.php?tbpv_id=121&tbpv_username=melodiekantner&tbpv_domain=melodiekantner.com&tbpv_button_style=1&tbpv_affiliate=78rhinomel&ref=78rhinomel" frameborder="0" width="60" height="68" scrolling="no"></iframe></div><p>There is a book I love and I encourage everyone who is serious about the success of their business to read. Actually, there are several I recommend but the book I am talking about is, <strong>What to Say When You Talk to Your Self</strong>, by Shad Helmstetter<br />
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<img src="http://melodiekantner.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/self-talk-200x150.jpg" alt="" title="self-talk-200x150" width="200" height="150" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-124" />Your self talk has a powerful impact on your success in any endeavor but particularly when building your network marketing business. The words we are using all day long can either lift us or tear us down. <strong>Your self talk can either build our self esteem or ruin it. </strong><br />
<P><br />
It is important to release the negative emotions and keep the energy in a positive state. <strong>Affirmations can be helpful in redirecting our thinking and self talk</strong>.  I like to <strong>enhance affirmations by tapping on the EFT points</strong> as I focus on the affirmations. You can use Emotional Freedom Technique to shift your energy to a more positive vibration.<br />
<P><br />
The EFT Points<img src="http://melodiekantner.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/eft-points2.gif" alt="" title="eft-points2" width="150" height="450" class="alignright size-full wp-image-128" /><br />
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KC = Karate Chop<br />
EB = Beginning of the Eye Brow<br />
SE = Side of the Eye<br />
UE = Under the Eye<br />
UN = Under the Nose<br />
Ch = Chin<br />
CB = Beginning of the Collar Bone<br />
UA = Under the Arm<br />
WR = Inside of Wrists<br />
TH = Top of Head<br />
<P><br />
You can also tap the fingertip points. I sometimes tap these points discreetly when I am in public. Each finger can be tapped at the base of the nail.<br />
<P><br />
Think of a positive affirmation that will help shift your energy to a more confident one. <strong>Tap each point repeating the affirmation as you tap each point</strong>. You can say multiple affirmations as you are tapping if you choose. While you are doing this, try to keep a smile on your face. There is something about smiling that super charges this process.<br />
<P><br />
Always be aware of the words you use and how they impact your self image or self esteem.<br />
<P><br />
Wishing you Abundant Success,<br />
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		<title>Why You Must Build Belief In Yourself and Your Business</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 05:29:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Melodie Kantner</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are four areas where you need to build belief: Network Marketing or MLM Industry Your Company &#038; Your Products Yourself and Your Ability to Achieve Your Goals Your dreams If you don&#8217;t have strong belief in these areas, you will not be able to succeed in your business. Watch the video on building a [...]]]></description>
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<li>Your Company &#038;<strong> Your Products</strong></li>
<li>Yourself and Your Ability to Achieve Your Goals</li>
<li>Your dreams</li>
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If you don&#8217;t have strong belief in these areas, you will not be able to succeed in your business.<br />
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Watch the video on building a strong belief.<br />
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