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Abundance and Gratitude EFT Tapping To Grow Your Business

Abundance and Gratitude essential oil blends are two oils I like to recommend to lift the abundance attracting energy and focus on growing your home business. Abundance Oil is a good one for when you want a more abundant energy and attracting good things. Gratitude Oil is great for focusing on feeling grateful.

Gratitude is one of the most powerful positive abundance attracting energies. Focusing in the things you are grateful for. This shifts out of negative and into a much better energy. It affects the mood for the better and makes everything better.

I recommend using some Gratitude Oil along with Gratitude Tapping. Try it. It’s a wonderful uplift.
Add a couple drops of Gratitude Oil on your fingertips before you begin tapping through the EFT Points.

If you don’t know how to do EFT, go to the website below and see how to do this easy Emotional Freedom Technique.
https://www.melodiekantner.com/how-to-do-eft

Gratitude Tapping

Today was an abundant day.
How abundant I am!
I found money on the ground!
Yeah! I love attracting good things!
I got a coupon for $10.00 off business supplies at Staples.
My hubby did the dishes so I could do a little watercolor painting.
The wren singing in the tree outside my window as I paint.
The beauty of creation.
I learned a great business tip online.
My son saying, “Hey mom. You wanna hang out on Zoom?”
The smell of Rose Oil.
Clean sheets.
Fresh roasted coffee.

You get the idea. Just tap through the points and think of all the abundant things that happened during the day.

When you find even one penny, it’s MONEY! Say I attracted MONEY, not a penny. Your subconscious doesn’t know the difference between a penny and money.

Here’s another option:

Just start in tapping when something abundant happens. This is a great time to tap because you are feeling the abundant emotion. That is powerful and you can enhance it and program it into your cells by tapping. Discreetly tap on your fingers at the base of the nail. ?

How abundant I am!
I found more money!
I am always finding money!
That is SO COOL!
It seems like I find money wherever I go.
It’s like I am a magnet attracting money.
I LOVE attracting money!
I’m so ABUNDANT!

Abundance Oil is one that we really need, especially in the stressful times we are living and the economy worries many people are feeling.

If you are familiar with the Law of Attraction, you know that what you focus on you attract more of. When you worry and stress over the economy, you hinder the abundant energy you have in your body. That makes it almost impossible to build a business or attract any kind of abundance.

I have seen the Law of Attraction working from both sides. Years ago, I went through a time where I was desperate to generate enough income to just make ends meet. I was in a sales job with a home cleaning system where I had to visit people’s home to demonstrate the cleaner and only got paid when I sold one. It seemed as though I couldn’t sell one if my life depended on it. Actually, my financial life did depend on it.

I didn’t understand the Law of Attraction back than but I do today. The reason I couldn’t make any sales is because I had an energy vibration of desperation. I desperately needed a sale. I was radiating that desperate energy. People could feel it. I didn’t realize I was affecting people with my desperate energy.

Here is another example – Around that same time my husband and I were traveling and doing art shows for our jewelry designs. Mark, my husband, made flameworked glass beads and I did copper enamel designs. We put them together with gemstones and made beautiful works of wearable art.

We won several best of show awards with our designs and even drew crowds with Mark demonstrating glass bead making over a flame, but making enough money to create a living was a real struggle. We would often just cover show expenses.

Oh, how I wish I had known about Abundance oil back then! Well, today I am so very grateful for Abundance oil blend. It is, hands down, my favorite oil. I use it EVERY DAY. By using Abundance oil, I become like a magnet attracting abundance. I would never consider touching anything business related without using Abundance oil first.

Abundance is a blend that raises your energetic vibration to attract greater prosperity into your life. It is an oil blend that is “created to enhance the frequency of the harmonic magnetic energy field that surrounds us. This higher frequency creates the “law of attraction,” a harmonic magnetic energy field around oneself.

How To Use Abundance Oil Blend

Use Abundance Oil blend first thing in the morning to get a good energy for the day, then use it whenever you feel the need for an abundant lift. Put 2 or 3 drops in your hands and rub together. Inhale deeply.

Use Abundance Oil before doing anything business related.

Add a few drops of Abundance Oil to cleaning water, especially when cleaning your office.

Diffuse it in your home office.

Put Abundance Oil on before paying bills.

Use Abundance Oil With EFT.

An example of an EFT session below on worries about the economy. You could also use Peace & Calming for the first part of the tapping script while you focus on negative emotions, then shift to Abundance Oil and focus on more positive abundance attracting energy.

Add a couple drops of Essential Oil to your fingertips before you begin tapping.

Tapping on the Karate Chop Point:

Even though I am afraid because of the economy, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though the news is full of depressing things about the economy and people losing their jobs, I choose to accept myself and release my fears.
Even though I am worried about how will we will pay all our bills during this worrisome time, I choose to accept myself and release my fears.

Tapping through the EFT Points: (It doesn’t matter which points, just tap through)

This economy is so scary.
I am afraid there isn’t enough income these days of quarantine.
The news is full of scary things.
So stressful.
I have bills to pay and obligations to meet.
I am feeling all this stress.
Stress and worry.
What if this gets worse?
I can’t help but to worry about the future.
I’m a little afraid there is no hope.
Feeling stress and fear.
OK, I know these negative thoughts only feed the fear.

I choose to shift to a better energy.
Negative thoughts and feelings block abundance.
I am choosing a better energy.
I am releasing the fear about the economy.
We have been through bad economy before.
Releasing negative emotions about the economy.
Releasing the fear that there is not enough money.
Release and let go of fears about income.
Releasing fears about the economy.
Letting go of the fear that there will never be enough.
I am releasing the fear that I won’t be able to pay my bills.
Letting go of the stress.
I am releasing all my fears about the economy.

I choose to feel calm and safe.
I feel confident in my ability to attract the income I need.
I choose to feel excited about the opportunity that this economy is creating.
This is a great time to work on my Side Hustle with my Young Living Business.

I am confident there are plenty of people who want to supplement their income.
Some of those would love to join me.
We can do this together.
I choose to feel comfortable and full of expectation in any economy.
No matter what is happening around me,
I choose to be calm and in peace.
I am strong.
I am confident.
I am peaceful.
I am attracting abundance, no matter what the economy is like.

Take a deep breath.

I added some words to this tapping session about Plan B, Side Hustle because it is these times when the economy is bad, people are looking for ways to earn extra income. Network Marketing and Direct Sales Businesses actually thrive in bad economy because of people working to build supplemental income.

If you are already working your Plan B, EFT and essential oils can be really helpful to shift to a more abundance attracting energy.

If you have not started your Plan B, Side Hustle yet, why not join us in Young Living? Besides essential oils, Young Living has Thieves Products with Hand Sanitizers, Cleaners, supplements and more.

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Releasing Resistance To Business Success

Let’s talk about abundance and resistance. As we build our network marketing business, we need to be constantly aware of our energy. If you are like me, you want a business that you can work from home or anywhere you happen to be. You are building a residual income that will create a lifestyle of freedom.

If you are setting your monthly and long term goals and not attracting the abundance you want through your business, it is usually because there is too much “resistance” in your energy systems. This is why it is important to be aware of the resistance and release it so you can attract the abundance you want.

Resistance is any emotion, behavior or vibration that isn’t in alignment with what you want. Negative thoughts become negative emotions and vibrations that become resistance. Any negative emotion can become resistance. The negative emotions may not directly be about your business but they DO affect your ability to attract abundance.

Negative vibrations are sent when you are talking or thinking about about what you DON’T want or when you worry or complain, feel discouraged or fearful, etc. This is true when you are having negative feelings around the business but also when you are feeling negative about your current circumstances. If you hate your job and you really want to change things. If you are struggling financially and you really to build residual income to change your financial situation. This is a big one. This is what I was experiencing when I started building my network marketing business. I was tired of having to work crappy jobs and struggling to make ends meet. There was a LOT of stress over money. All of that stress made it really challenging to build my business.

Back then I did not know about the Law of Attraction. I did not know that every time I focused on the things I did NOT want, I was actually sending out negative vibrations attracting more of the same crap. That is really hard when there is not enough money to cover all the bills, or you need a new roof or whatever job needs to be done and you feel stressed out because you have no idea how you are going to get it all done. It’s the feelings of stress, frustration, discouragement, etc. that become resistance.

Every morning, stop and notice how you are feeling emotionally. Negative emotions cause resistance and blocks to abundance.

Some examples of emotions that cause resistance are: frustration, pessimism, resentment, anger, fear, anxiety, impatience and general stress. Resistant vibrations include: scarcity, worthiness issues, lack etc. In short, anything that puts you in a bad mood could be called resistance.

You will have negative emotions. We ALL have that. Stressful things happen. The key is not staying there too long. You MUST refocus and get in a better more abundance attracting vibration. Do something to get in a better emotional state. One of the most powerful abundance attracting emotions is gratitude.

EFT is a powerful way to release the resistance and allow abundance.

EFT Tapping to Release Resistance

Essential oils that could be used with this tapping: Abundance, Acceptance, Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation, Release, Field, Valor.
Add a drop or two of essential oil to fingertips before tapping through the points.

While tapping the karate chop point on either hand, repeat these phrases, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

Tapping on the Karate Chop point:
Even though I have all this resistance, I deeply and completely accept myself
Even though I have all this resistance, I deeply and completely accept myself
Even though I have all this resistance, I deeply and completely accept myself

Start tapping through the points:

I can feel the resistance.
There is so much stress.
Working
Paying bills
Working
Paying bills
Working
Paying bills (Use whatever words describe things you are stressing about)
With all that working,
It seems like we should have enough.
But there’s never enough.
This isn’t any fun.
All this working.
Never having time to do the things I want to do.
Never having the money to do what I want.
I am feeling the stress.
I feel scarcity and lack.
I feel the resistance.
It’s causing me to resist the thing that I really want.
I really want to change things.
I am building this business to change things.
But I can feel the resistance.
I set goals and I work hard,
but I have not been able to reach them.
I had the goal to enroll 5 new members this month,
but I didn’t reach my goal.
I do all kinds of prospecting but I can’t seem to get anywhere.
I can feel the resistance.
I need to clear that.
It’s time to let go of the resistance.
I’m letting it go.
I release all struggle and resistance.
Releasing all the resistance.
Releasing resistance to success in my business.
Releasing resistance in all areas of my life.
I release all feelings of scarcity.
Releasing the fear that there is never enough.
Releasing it from every cell in my body.
Releasing the stress of having to work all the time.
Releasing all the feelings of stress.
Releasing all the feelings of overwhelm.
Releasing all the feelings of fear.
Releasing the feelings of struggle around reaching my goals.
I am open and allowing my business to grow every month.
I am grateful I have this amazing opportunity to build a lifestyle of freedom.
I love our amazing products
and I love sharing the products that have changed my life.
I allow success in my life and my business.
I am open and allowing abundance to flow through my business and my life.
I’m ready and willing to receive abundance.
I am grateful for the abundance I already have.
I am allowing more abundance every day.
I am an abundance magnet!

Take a deep breath. It is always a good idea to drink some water when doing EFT.

Click HERE for Essential oils that enhance EFT

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Enhance Abundance With The Power of Gratitude

The law of attraction is always at work in our life. We attract more of whatever energy we are radiating. Whether you believe it or not, the energy you radiate can affect your business success – prospecting and sales. You know that you have experienced times when someone who is in a bad mood enters the room. You can feel the energy drop. When you find yourself in a conversation with a negative person, you can feel your own energy drop.

We affect each other with our different moods. The same thing happens when we have money worries, scarcity thinking, negative feelings about sales, talking to strangers about our business or product and any number of other negative emotions. Those negative feelings are reflected in the way we speak and act in any situation, or if we will act at all.

Gratitude is one of, if not the most powerful attracting energy. That is why writing a daily gratitude list is really beneficial to keep your energy on the positive attracting side. I have to admit, I don’t always take the time to write my list down but I try to express gratitude every day about several things that I can be thankful for.

One especially nice time to reflect on things you are grateful for is while going on a walk. As you walk, you can express gratitude for the beauty of the trees, flowers, streams, things about your life, health, family, etc. This should be things you are truly grateful for. Even in troubled times, there are lots of things that we can be thankful for. Celebrate those things. Reflect and rejoice over the good things. Gratitude reduces negativity. It is hard to be negative about your situation when you are thinking about things for which you are grateful. It also helps improve your mood.

gratitude-oil Apply a couple drops of Young Living Gratitude oil to enhance any gratitude reflection you are doing. I also recommend using Gratitude oil with any gratitude EFT Tapping you do. Tapping affirmations is really powerful. I recommend a Tap While You Thank session. Similar to Tap While You Gripe. You just tap any EFT points and think or say whatever you feel grateful for. The combination of Young Living Gratitude Oil with EFT while expressing gratitude is really powerful.

There are also times when abundant things happen. Those are times when it is important to celebrate and feel gratitude. That energy helps you attract more abundance. Dwelling on negative things like not having enough money can actually repel abundance. Celebrate even when you find a penny. You attracted money!

Here are a couple examples:

Gratitude Tapping

Today was an abundant day.
How abundant I am!
I am always finding money!
Yea! I love attracting good things!
I got a phone call from someone wanting product info.
I got a coupon for $10.00 off business supplies at Staples.
My hubby did the dishes so I could return some business phone calls.
I learned a great business tip from my upline.

You get the idea. Just tap through the points and think of all the abundant things that happened during the day.

Here’s another option:

How abundant I am!
I found money!
I am always finding money!
That is SO COOL!
It seems like I find money wherever I go.
It’s like I am a magnet attracting money.
I LOVE attracting money!
I’m so ABUNDANT!

How beautiful it is here.
I am so grateful to be alive!
I am so grateful for my family.
We have such fun together.
I’m grateful for my Network Marketing (Direct Marketing) Business that allows me the FREEDOM to work from home!
I am grateful for my health.
I LOVE the beautiful rain that will produce nice green plants in the spring.
I’m so grateful for my ABUNDANT blessings!

Use Gratitude Essential Oil to Power Up EFT Gratitude Tapping.

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Add Power To EFT With Essential Oils

I have a little secret weapon that I love to add to my EFT sessions. What is the secret weapon, you ask?

It’s ESSENTIAL OILS!

When I teach fellow network marketers how to do EFT, I always teach them how to enhance their EFT sessions with powerful emotional essential oil blends.

To use essential oils with EFT, just put a couple drops of the essential oil on your fingertips and on the karate chop point before you begin tapping. The oil will be carried to all the other points as you tap.

EFT Oils - Valor
Valor – an essential oil blend that empowers the mind and increases feelings of courage and confidence. Valor would be a wonderful oil to use before doing anything that is out of your comfort zone. Use it before doing business or product presentations, prospecting, follow up calls, or anything that makes you feel fearful.

Valor also balances the body’s energy meridians and emotions. It’s a wonderful oil to add to and EFT routine. You can use Valor before you begin to help make everything you are doing more effective, then finish up with Valor to give you strength to move forward.

Procrastination is usually caused by an underlying fear. Using Valor with EFT on whatever you are procrastinating can help shift to a more productive state of mind. If you are procrastinating business tasks you could do some tapping on procrastination and getting out of your comfort zone.

Tapping Scripts With Valor
https://www.melodiekantner.com/eft-to-release-fear-of-change
https://www.melodiekantner.com/tapping-for-holding-back-from-speaking-up

https://www.melodiekantner.com/eft-to-release-quarantine-fears-and-stress
https://www.melodiekantner.com/releasing-the-anxiety-of-attracting-new-prospects

Motivation – An essential oil blend that may promote feelings of action and accomplishment. This is an essential oil that is helpful when you have things to do but you just don’t feel motivated to do it.

Tapping Scripts With Motivation
https://www.melodiekantner.com/simple-steps-to-get-unstuck-and-stay-motivated

https://www.melodiekantner.com/eft-tapping-for-those-days-when-you-feel-crappy-and-unmotivated

Envision – An oil blend that stimulates feelings of creativity and resourcefulness, encouraging renewed faith in the future and the strength necessary to achieve your dreams.

Acceptance – encourages feelings of self-worth and acceptance. Sometimes things happen that are out of our control. The economy is one example. Losing a job is another example. Things keep changing. Some changes are good, some changes are not so good. Accepting things that you can’t change helps you to figure out how to move forward. Accepting things as they are helps emotionally let go of past mistakes and formulate a plan to move in the direction you really want to make progress in, no matter what kind of area you want success in.

Highest Potential – is an oil that was designed to increase your capacity to achieve your highest potential and be your best self. Use whenever you need a little extra inspiration, confidence and determination.

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Release is a blend with a relaxing aroma that facilitates the ability to let go of anger and frustration. This oil is wonderful with EFT to let go of things that are holding you back.

I have had a couple people tell me that they have an overwhelming need to talk and unload the negative feelings when they use Release oil. I recommend the “Tap While You Gripe” technique for this. It works wonders when you want to vent about something that makes you angry or upset. With the “Tap While You Gripe” technique, you just tap through the EFT points while you talk about whatever is bothering you. Get it all off your chest. You can say the words out loud or in your head but just say anything that comes to mind about the issue. Sometimes you may not even know why you feel bad. Tap anyway. Start with, “I feel bad but I don’t know why.” Then describe the way you feel and keep tapping on whatever comes to mind.

Don’t worry about getting the points right. You can tap all or just a few of the points. Just tap and talk.

Do a little mental gauge: On a scale between 0 and 10 how strong is this negative emotion? 10 is really strong negative feelings. Keep tapping until you get down to zero.

Release oil blend is really great for releasing anger and other negative feelings.

Abundance oil blend is possibly my favorite of all. This oil blend raises your abundance-oil-blend body’s energy to the frequency of attraction so you attract abundance. Abundance oil is also very uplifting. Abundance is one oil I apply every morning before I do any business. I also apply it whenever I go anywhere there are people. That oil attracts business.

You can use Abundance oil with EFT when you are working on law of attraction issues. The law of attraction is always at work. Our negative emotions block abundance so we want to be shifting our energy to a positive attracting one. We want to radiate an abundance energy.

Abundance oil is also wonderful for affirmation tapping. Also when you are focusing on your goals.

Here is an excellent EFT Session that Abundance oil works well with:

I am A Magnet For Abundance and Success

Listen to your intuition when using oils with EFT. The names of Young Living Oil blends give an impression what they can be used for on an emotional level but sometimes you can be drawn to an oil you would not normally expect. Use whatever oil feels right. It will likely be a good one.

Click HERE for Essential oils that enhance EFT

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Release Feelings of Guilt In Your Network Marketing Business

Do you ever have feelings of guilt in your network marketing business? Let’s face it, we all do from time to time. Things happen. You get overwhelmed and discouraged. That’s when the procrastination starts. It can become a negative, progress blocking cycle. That’s when the guilt sets in and you start emotionally beating yourself up.

You may feel like you let your leader or mentor down. You had plans to do something with the business but time you start feeling embarrassed because you feel like the upline leader is disappointed in your progress. If this proceeds for any length of time the guilt can grow bigger to the point where you feel stuck and maybe even like giving up.

Let me stop here and tell you that your upline has been there and cares about you and understands that you will have times when your productivity will drop. This happens. Never feel embarrassed. Call your upline and have a mastermind session.

Here are a few things that can cause that niggly guilt feeling:

The list could go on but you get the idea.

Guilt is very destructive for your business. It is a very negative emotion that blocks the Release Guilt abundance energy. You want to be feeling an abundant and prosperous energy when you are conducting your daily business activities, especially prospecting and following up on leads. When you feel guilty you can start feeling depressed and then beating up on yourself emotionally. This can get into a downward spiral.

We all have it from time to time. Whenever you start feeling the guilt, STOP and Forgive yourself. Remember that we all have these feelings sometimes. We all mess up. We all have times when we don’t feel like following up on leads. We all have moments when we are not as communicative as we should be. It is those times we need to pick ourselves up and readjust to get back on track.

It is for those times that I wrote the EFT tapping script below. It’s an EFT script to help you release guilt feelings and help you re-energize.

I like to use Release essential oil blend while tapping on the negative feelings, then shift to any of the more uplifting, motivating oils on the positive section. Put a couple drops on your fingertips and tap tap tap. 🙂

EFT Tapping on Releasing Guilt:

Even though I am feeling so guilty about not ____(following up on leads)_, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I have all this guilt about things I haven’t done for my business, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I am feeling guilt, I choose to forgive myself, release the guilt and move confidently forward.

Focusing on the Feelings

(eyebrow) I am feeling guilt about not doing things I know will grow my business.
(side of eye) I know I should be ____________.
(under eye) These guilt feelings are really getting me down.
(nose) I can’t stop thinking about it but I can’t seem to get some of these things done.
(chin) I will never be able to do these things perfectly.
(collarbone) I see distributors progressing so quickly and I have been poking along slowly.
(under arm) I am disappointed in myself.
(head) It feels like I am dragging a heavy weight everywhere I go.

(eyebrow) I can’t seem to stop punishing myself about things
(side of eye) I feel just terrible.
(under eye) My inaction is really causing me pain and guilt.
(nose) I am so disappointed in myself for not doing ___________.
(chin) I let myself down.
(collarbone) Feeling so disappointed in myself.
(under arm) I really need to release this guilt.
(head) Guilt doesn’t help me progress toward my goals.

(Stop here and take notice how high your level of guilt feels. What does the negative feeling feel like on a scale of 0-10? If it’s not at a 0 you can do a few more rounds on the previous sections until you get all the negative feeling released.)

Round Two: Shift and Implant Positive

(eyebrow) I have decided to forgive myself for messing up.
(side of eye) I know everyone makes mistakes.
(under eye) Even the Crown Diamond distributors make mistakes.
(nose) I am forgiving myself for not _____________.
(chin) It’s ok to be off my game once in a while.
(collarbone) I just don’t need to be feeling this guilt.
(under arm) Releasing and letting go all the guilt from every cell in my body.
(head) Releasing the guilt and forgiving myself.

(eyebrow) I release the guilt and move forward toward my goals.
(side of eye) Letting it go.
(under eye) I choose to forgive myself.
(nose) Releasing and letting go all the guilt from every cell in my body.
(chin) I am no longer beating up on myself.
(collarbone) I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.
(under arm) I choose to move forward.
(head) I choose to readjust my efforts and make progress toward my goals.

(eyebrow) I am charging forward like a Rhinoceros.
(side of eye) I am confident and energized.
(under eye) I am motivated and charging forward toward my success.
(nose) I feel so much lighter remembering that even the Crown Diamond distributors make mistakes too but they still got to Crown Diamond.
(chin) That feels so much better.
(collarbone) I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.
(under arm) I feel free and energized.
(head) I AM confident, motivated and loving what I do.

Essential Oil Blends: Release, Acceptance, Abundance, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release, Valor

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