EFT To Release Feeling Like Needs Are Not Met

Do you remember when you were a kid and you wanted something like a game, a toy or some current clothing style of the day? When you were a kid, you wanted things.

Kids just want everything . . .

“Mom, I want this toy!” “Mom, I want these shoes” “Mom, I want …”

Parents have a lot on their shoulders. They have all the household expenses, earning a living and taking care of their family and all that is involved with that. If there are are multiple children this can be very challenging. Kids are always needing things. Kids want things all the time. Every new toy that comes out. It’s not possible to get everything you want. This is especially true if your family is experiencing money problems. You may have heard them say, “No, we can’t afford that.” “We don‘t have enough money for that.”
“We don’t have time for that.” Or, when you were in the store and asking and pleading for something. You would hear, “No! Stop it! You can’t have that!”

These messages you heard as a child were usually said in a sharp frustrated tone of voice which made an emotional imprint in the subconscious mind.

When our parents reacted this way to our desires, we start to develop a belief that we should be ashamed of ourselves for even having desires and needs. This could actually set up in your subconscious as a vow that it is not OK to have needs. We carry these childhood messages into our adult lives. They can end up as blocks and resistance that slow you down when you are building your network marketing business.

There is good news. Using EFT you can shift things. You can clear out some of the negative programming from the past and shift to a better place. Even if things come up that remind you again of another layer of the issue, just return to tapping. We all have many layers, just like an onion. That’s what makes us all so interesting. 😉

How about a little tapping on this!

You can do EFT without oils but if you are a Young Living Essential Oil user, just add a couple drops of oil to your fingertips and start tapping through the points. For this tapping I would start with Release, then switch to Abundance essential oil blend.

Jump right in tapping through any of the points.
There was always anxiety and worry about money.
There was never enough.
Never-ending cycles of scarcity, Of struggle to make ends meet
I wanted things the other kids had.
I was told, “No! We can’t afford that.”
“No! We don’t have enough money for that.”
“No! We can’t afford that.”
“No! You don’t need that.”
“Stop it! You can’t have that!”
That’s what my parents would say.

Disappointment over and over.
I am feeling it.

I’m afraid to even think about what I need.
Because way back then
It wasn’t okay for me to have needs.
It wasn’t okay for me to have desires.
I had to do what they wanted me to do.
It wasn’t okay for me to ask for what I want.
All of this got programmed into my subconscious mind.
Programmed into my nervous system.
My family’s money problems and scarcity.
I made a vow that my needs are never met.
I made a vow that there will always be struggle around money and never enough to meet my needs.
I made a vow not to even ask for what I need.

These vows have been running in the background and affecting everything I do.
I have needs today.
I need to pay my bills.
I need to pay off my debt.
I need to hire help to make repairs on things.
But these old vows from the past have been causing me to sabotage my efforts to build my business.
It contributes to fear about money, depression about money, hopelessness and disappointment connected to money.
It causes me to play small and keep things the way they are.
I don’t want to keep things the way they are.
I want to build my business to help me better take care of my needs.
And some of my needs are more than needs.
I need some fun and travel in my life too.
Joy and happiness is also a need. So is FREEDOM!

It is time to …
Let go of all the lies and illusions I have been told.
Releasing all the limiting beliefs from my childhood.
Letting go of all the negative programming from my childhood.
Releasing all of the feelings of hopelessness that my needs were not being met.
Releasing all the anger at not getting what I want.
I didn’t have control back then but I do now.

I have control now.
I am in charge of my life.
I am in charge of how I show up in my life.
I get to decide how I want my life to look.
I can create whatever life I want to create.
I am a powerful resourceful creator.

I am releasing the vow that my needs are never met.
I am releasing the vow that there will always be struggle around money and never enough to meet my needs.
I am releasing the vow not to even ask for what I need.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the vow that my needs are never met.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the vow that there will always be struggle around money and never enough to meet my needs.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the vow not to even ask for what I need.
Releasing it!
Letting it go!
Tapping it out of every cell in my body.
I am open to a whole new way with money.
So I can create my new reality.
So I can build a successful network marketing business.
I am open to earning much more, doing what I love.
I am creating my life, creating my money!
It’s my choice now. I am in control.
I free myself from these old money beliefs.
And I am now free to choose!
I am attracting abundance.
I am attracting everything I need.
I am deserving of love.
I am good enough.
I am getting my needs met in healthy ways.
I am worth it.
My needs are important.
I am attracting people and events that help fill my needs.
I am safe to move forward with my life.

Take a deep breath and let it all go!

Tap as often as you need whenever you feel any of the old programming from childhood coming up.
You might need to tap through this a few times, especially if money issues were a big issue in your family. Change up the words if you need to. Tap about whatever fear or negative feeling you have.

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Releasing The Anxiety of Attracting New Prospects

Success in any kind of business requires doing actual Income Producing Activities every day. In a regular JOB you arrive for the work schedule every day and you have to do the daily tasks or you will get fired. When you have a network marketing business, you are working from home on your own schedule. It can be a challenge to keep focused on the actual income producing activities that actually grow your business. It can be easy to get caught up in doing things that seem like business activities but are really just a form of procrastination. Things like organizing the office or learning all you can about the products and the science behind them, checking in on Facebook Groups related to your business or making graphics. These things are important but if you spend too much time in any area that is not an income producing activity, your business will not grow.

Income producing activities involve connecting with people, approaching new people, talking with people and building relationships. There are lots of ways to do that both in person and online. It’s really not hard and actually quite fun once you get past the underlying anxiety that gets in the way.

It’s the underlying anxiety that causes procrastination. We all have it in some area. In your business it can show up when you feel hesitant to talk about your business or product.
To build a successful network marketing business, you need to step out of your comfort zone.

There are lots of ways to open up conversation and interest in your products and business. Think of it as planting seeds. Make connections and friends.

EFT is powerful way to help with stepping out of your comfort zone and attacking your Daily IPAs. You can tap on whatever you are feeling that is slowing you down or getting in your way. I really love the Tap While You Gripe technique. Just tap and say (or think) whatever is on your mind. Notice the feelings you are having about talking about your business. Do you feel uncomfortable bringing up the product or that you are building a home business? Feelings like that will cause procrastination which will block your success.

I always use an essential oil blend to power up my EFT tapping. You can do EFT without oils but if you are a Young Living Essential Oil user, just add a couple drops of oil to your fingertips and start tapping through the points. Use whatever oil feels right for you. A few ideas are: Abundance, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Valor.

Let’s do some tapping on this!

Jump right in tapping through any of the points.

I am anxious about putting myself out there.
Talking with new people and making new connections and new friends.
I know I need to make new connections and build relationships.
I find myself sometimes holding back.
I want to make more connections and build relationships.
I know this is a relationship business.
It’s very important to grow my connections and friends.
I don’t feel very social.
I am an introvert.
I feel a little anxious about approaching people I don’t know.
It feels a little uncomfortable so I hold back.
Staying in my comfort zone with the same 30 people I already know.
I even hold back talking to the ones I already know.
What if they think I’m a weirdo?
I am releasing the emotional attachment to feeling anxious.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to feeling uncomfortable.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to feeling unsocial.
I am releasing the emotional attachment to fear of speaking up.
RELEASE the anxiety …
RELEASE the discomfort …
RELEASE the fear.
It doesn’t have to be hard.
If I just love on my friends and share with them, things happen naturally.
I’ll use my favorite products in front of them and share if they need it.
This doesn’t have to feel uncomfortable.
I share all kinds of things with my friends and family that I get no benefit from.
I share movies I like.
I share restaurants I like.
I share lots of products I like that I never get compensation for.
I just share because I love my friends and it’s natural to talk about what I love.
It’s natural to talk about how a product has helped my family.
I love my products and my business and I on the lookout for ways I can share what I love.
I know some of my friends will want to join me on this healthy lifestyle journey.
Some will also want to join me in this amazing community and a lifestyle of freedom.
It doesn’t have to feel weird.
It’s just a matter of fact.
I use these products for a more healthy lifestyle for my family.
I happen to get paid for referrals.
That’s nothing to feel embarrassed or uncomfortable about.
It makes me one smart cookie.
I love helping people have a healthier lifestyle.
I love connecting and making new friends and building my community of friends living a lifestyle of health and freedom.

Take a deep breath.

Tap as often as you need to. Add any feelings you want to as you shift to feeling more comfortable making connections and sharing the products you love.
This would be a good one to tap through before any social events where you will be meeting new friends or interacting with people you already know.

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Build Belief In Your Network Marketing Success

Do you believe you will be able to build a successful network marketing business? Do you believe anyone can build a successful business in the network marketing industry? This is something you need to think about. What you believe affects how successful you will be. It’s so important to have a strong belief. We become what we believe.

Can you see yourself as a top income earner? Can you see yourself earning a living with your business? If you can’t see it and BELIEVE it, you will have a really tough time building a successful business.

Picturing, visualizing success is one important way to start building belief. Constantly picturing yourself in the role of a successful high earning business owner. See it! Feel it!

Listening to audios, reading books, reading emails from upline and attending company events will help to your belief grow. Visualize your success.

Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) are a great way to way to help clear any limiting beliefs that block your success. You can also use the tapping to enhance visualization and affirmations. Just tap through the EFT points as you are visualizing your success or saying affirmations. EFT is also great for releasing doubts and fears that get in the way of belief in your abilities.

If you don’t have strong belief in these areas, you will not be able to succeed in your business.


Another way to way to strengthen your belief is to do some EFT. You can tap the EFT points as you are visualizing your success. EFT is also great for releasing doubts and fears that get in the way of belief in your abilities.

Young Living distributors will want to use one of the essential oil blends to enhance the process. Young Living’s Envision or Believe essential oil blend are good ones but there are other oil blends that are good with this EFT session on belief are Abundance, Acceptance, Gathering, Release, Valor.

Just add a couple drops of oil to your fingertips and start tapping through the points. You can add specific doubts and fears where you want in with the tapping script. You can also tap through several times if you need a little more clearing on the issue.

Try this tapping script when you feel your belief slipping:

Even though I’m having doubts about my success, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I have doubts I can be successful in network marketing, I choose to feel confident now.
Even though my doubts are blocking my success, I’m willing to grow in confidence and belief.

I have all these doubts about success.
Can anyone be successful in network marketing?
Can I be successful in this business?
I have these doubts in my abilities.
I’m full of doubts about network marketing.
I see others having success but I don’t know if I can do it too.
I love the products and I love sharing them.
I know this is just a lack of confidence.
I know there are ways to do this business that I can feel comfortable with.
I choose to feel confident.
I am moving forward in spite of my doubts.
I release the emotional attachment to the belief that success is for other people but not for me.
I can release all the doubts.
I choose to release all these doubts.
I am releasing the doubts.
I am releasing all the doubts about network marketing.
I am releasing all the doubts about my ability to attract customers and business builders.
I am releasing all the doubts.
I can believe in myself.
I will let myself be full of confidence.
I choose to believe in myself.

I choose to know I can build this business…
I love releasing the doubts.
I radiate confidence and belief.
I choose to be full of passion and abundance.
I love how confident I am feeling.
I am so strong and confident, other people are noticing it.
I radiate strong belief and confidence in myself, the network marketing industry and my awesome products.
I love how I feel when I know I am attracting abundance.
I LOVE that I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders.
I am a very successful, magnetic leader.
Every CELL in my body is full of magnetic ABUNDANCE.
I am a confident and successful leader, full of belief and passion.

Take a deep breath.

You might need to tap through this a few times, especially if you have a deeply ingrained fear that success is for other people but not for you. Change up the words if you need to. Tap about whatever fear or negative feeling you have.


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How To Get UNSTUCK and Back To Making Progress


Do you ever feel STUCK in your business? You set goals with the intent to reach them but it seems like it’s a constant struggle.

We all feel stuck sometimes. You know what I mean. Progress seems to stop or be going really slowly. Stuck at a rank for what seems like a long time without seeing progress towards the next rank, or stuck at an income that is nowhere near the amount you have set as your goal.

I know what it is like to be stuck at the same rank for years. I knew I was stuck. I wanted to move to the next rank and I was OK with that for way too long. I actually knew why I was stuck. It was fears around what would happen if I advanced to Diamond. What would be expected of me? How big a change? Will I have any free time?

Whenever you are stuck or finding yourself in a procrastination loop, it is ALWAYS because of an underlying fear. I have had people respond that they don’t have fear about reaching their goal. “I want to get to Diamond” or “I want to earn a 6 figure income.” The problem is, they are not progressing. If you are not making progress, there is something blocking your goals. Underlying fears cause procrastination and other sabotage behaviors. If you find yourself having a lot of “squirrel moments” or going down rabbit holes that distract you from income producing activity, there is a subconscious fear blocking your progress.

Do you know WHY you are stuck?

I didn’t know why I was stuck but once I started noticing my feelings and asking the right questions, I began to realize which underlying fears were getting in my way. Once I realized the “downside” to reaching my goal, I could start working on it with EFT.

We all have things going on in our subconscious that can turn into blocks. If you have been a distributor in a company for any length of time there will be a few dissatisfied customers or distributors. Yup, it will happen. Some people will test your patience. Some will even start a vicious cycle of drama when they feel they have been wronged. It happened to me and it was a very hard time to go through. It was easy to spot the blocks that came up from that event. It threw me into protection mode. Never again was I going to allow someone to put me in a spot where they could hurt me that way. It affected my business building. I was angry and it overflowed into everything I was doing. I started doing busy work instead of income producing activity and got stuck in a pattern of procrastination and sabotage. I was STUCK!

The problem is, when your subconscious is protecting you, it is actually putting a halt to your progress. It means well but it’s not really helping.

We all have this subconscious protection going on. It could be something really simple. You could have had some embarrassing thing happen as a child and something today reminds you of it. The trick is asking the right questions to help you realize what underlying fears are getting in your way.

Ask yourself, “What is the downside of getting to your goal?” There could be a LOT of little things that go in the downside column.

Will I have to speak in front of people?
Will I have people constantly wanting things from me?
Will I have a moments peace from people contacting me with questions, complaining, solving problems, etc.?
Will I have time for myself?
Will I be able to help my team be successful?
Will I become a target for people with bad motives?
What will my friends and family think of my goals?

There are lots of things that could be going on in your subconscious. Ask the questions and then tap on any negative issues.

Here is a little tapping on being stuck. You can change the words to anything that feels right. It doesn’t matter what points you tap. Just tap and talk through whatever comes up.

Focus in on your feelings around reaching your income or rank goal.

Essential oils that could be used with this tapping: Valor, Abundance, Acceptance, Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation, Release, Field.
Add a drop or two of essential oil to fingertips before tapping through the points.

While tapping the karate chop point on either hand, repeat these phrases, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

Even though I know I am stuck, I deeply and completely love and accept myself
Even though I’m so tired of being stuck, I deeply and completely love and accept myself
Even though I really want to get to the next goal but I am stuck and sabotaging progress, I deeply and completely love and accept myself

Tap through the points:

I am stuck.
Not making any real progress
It feels so frustrating when I am stuck.
I wish I could just reach my goals quickly like some people do.
I’m not even sure why I am stuck.
I know there is some fear blocking me.
Somewhere inside I am protecting myself from something.
I don’t feel comfortable with success so I sabotage myself.
For some reason I keep sabotaging my success.
I just can’t seem to get unstuck.
I am resisting success but I want success.
I don’t know why I keep sabotaging myself.
I want success but I can’t seem to get unstuck.
This issue keeps coming up.
I make a few steps forward but then something stops me and gets me stuck again.
I am ready to release the emotional attachment to being stuck.
I release the emotional attachment to staying stuck.
I am ready to look at the real reasons I have been staying stuck and making very slow progress.
I release the emotional attachment to being stuck.
I release the emotional attachment to blocking my progress.
I release the emotional attachment to sabotaging my progress.
I release the emotional attachment to slowing down my progress.
I release the emotional attachment to blocking my goals.
I release the emotional attachment to resisting success.
I am letting go of the fear.
I am releasing the need to protect myself from the unknown.
Letting go of the fear of what will happen.
Release and let go of the fear of success.


I choose to feel safe and confident in my success.
I deserve success.
I choose to feel comfortable reaching my biggest goals.
I forgive myself for the times I was stuck.
I feel good moving forward.
I AM the power to change my life.
I am celebrating progress and reaching my goals.
I comfortable and safe making progress and reaching my goals.
I am excited about the progress and the changes I am making.

Take a deep breath.

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Hidden Fears Causing SQUIRREL MOMENTS That Sabotage Your Success?

I recently had a person comment on one of my articles on fear of success. He thought it was absurd that someone would fear success. He said, “Everyone wants success.”

Well, that is true, everyone does want success but why is it that NOT EVERYONE is successful? The simple fact is, everyone has hidden fears about something. These hidden fears can cause resistance to success. Your subconscious mind is operating on another level and it might be sabotaging your success.

You want to be successful but you keep getting in your own way. I know how that feels. I have gone through periods of sabotage. EFT is the best way to clear it and get moving again. If you are serious about reducing sabotage, you will want to do some EFT every morning to get your mindset and vibrational energy in the abundance attracting side rather than repelling. If you are resisting, you are repelling whatever it is you want to attract.

Think about what you want.

    What does success in your network marketing business feel like?
    Picture yourself there.
    What is happening?
    What responsibilities will you have?
    How much money is coming in with your monthly commission check?
    What is the size of your team?
    What kind of leader are you?
    How many leaders do you have on your team?

As you think about each of these things, take notice of how you feel as you think about EACH ONE. If you get any negative feelings like nervousness, anxiety, fear, overwhelm, or anything negative, these are things that can become blocks. These blocks can cause you to fall into sabotaging behavior.

Do you ever find yourself “going down a rabbit hole” when you really intend to be working on income producing activities? You know what I mean. Those “SQUIRREL MOMENTS.” Those of you who saw the movie “UP” know what squirrel moments are. 😉

Anyway, You intend to do some prospecting, make some followup phone calls, write a blog post or some other business building activity but you see a drawer that needs to be cleaned out, a closet that needs organizing, dust bunnies, a little online research, a cat video on Facebook. You find yourself distracted and procrastinating. The time slips away and you didn’t get anything on your income producing activities list done.

I get it. I have those moments too. The key is, when you notice yourself falling into a squirrel moment or some other form of procrastination, stop and do some EFT!

Think about some of these possible hidden fears:

    New responsibilities
    People expect things of you
    There are lots of changes
    A lot of work involved
    I’ll have no time
    I don’t like calling people on the phone
    I don’t like talking to strangers
    Fear you won’t be able to do what it takes
    Fear of letting your spouse or family down

    Past issues
    You may have witnessed the toll success has taken on someone you know
    The way your parents talked about successful people
    Harsh judgments you witnessed other people doing to people who were successful

These are just a few examples. There are all kinds of things that come with success. Some of these things are scary but EFT is a great way to clear those negative feelings.

Below is a Tapping Script for those times when you are having a SQUIRREL MOMENT. I would use Valor and Acceptance oil with this one. You could do some rounds with Magnify Your Purpose oil. More on those oils here.


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Even though I am having another SQUIRREL MOMENT, I deeply love and accept myself
Even though I am going down a rabbit hole, I deeply love and accept myself
Even though I am sabotaging my success with all of the SQUIRREL MOMENTS, I deeply love and accept myself

Another squirrel moment.
I keep getting distracted.
Going down another rabbit hole.
It’s just my way of procrastinating,
and procrastinating is sabotage.
I don’t know why I am procrastinating.
I know procrastination and sabotage are based in fear.
What is it I am afraid of?
Am I afraid of success?
It would be a BIG CHANGE.
Lots of new leadership responsibilities.
I feel responsible for my team members success.
It will be overwhelming.
People will want more of my time and attention.
I will be WAY outside of my comfort zone.
Afraid I will let people down.
I don’t want to be judged.
(Fill in any fears you are aware of)
I’m handling about all I can do right now,
If I take action and succeed,
I’m going to have to handle a whole lot more
That seems too overwhelming.
I am resisting success but I want success.
I know this sabotage is coming from my subconscious.
I want success but I keep sabotaging.
I am afraid I won’t be able to do this.

I’m getting older and I feel like life is passing by.
All I do is work, come home and fix dinner, Sleep, Work and Repeat.
Over and over again work, come home and fix dinner, Sleep, Work and Repeat.
Is this all there is to life?
Am I going to have to work all my life and never really have a LIFE?!
I want to do this network marketing business so I can change all of that.
I want to work from home doing something I LOVE.
I want FREEDOM to do what I want, when I want!
I’m so DONE with being a compulsive clock watcher!
Counting the minutes until I can go home!
I want both time and financial FREEDOM!

I am releasing the fear of stepping outside of my comfort zone.
My LIFE is at stake here!
A life I enjoy! Not a live of slavery to the time clock!
I am releasing the habit of putting things off.
Releasing and clearing at a cellular level.
Going back to my past, where I got the message that success was not safe for me.
Maybe it came from a past experience where some success I had came with negative consequences.
Releasing and clearing at a cellular level.
Letting go of the fear!
Letting go of the SQUIRREL MOMENTS!
I am releasing the habit of procrastination.
Letting go of the fear of what will happen.
Release and let go of the fear of taking action.

I choose to feel safe and confident in my action.
I choose to get moving.
I am stepping out of my comfort zone.
I choose to move forward one step at a time.
I feel good moving forward.
I enjoy taking action.
I feel good moving forward.
I know what I need to do and I am getting it done.
I have the power to change my life.
I know what I need to do and I am getting it done.
I have the power to change my life
I am celebrating change and transition.
I know what I need to do and I am getting it done.
I feel confident about becoming successful.
I choose to achieve success,
and show others that they can do it too.
Being successful is a much better way to do this!
I can handle it!
I am attracting an ABUNDANT LIFE!



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