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How To Get UNSTUCK and Back To Making Progress

Do you ever feel STUCK in your business? You set goals with the intent to reach them but it seems like it’s a constant struggle.

We all feel stuck sometimes. You know what I mean. Progress seems to stop or be going really slowly. Stuck at a rank for what seems like a long time without seeing progress towards the next rank, or stuck at an income that is nowhere near the amount you have set as your goal.

I know what it is like to be stuck at the same rank for years. I knew I was stuck. I wanted to move to the next rank and I was OK with that for way too long. I actually knew why I was stuck. It was fears around what would happen if I advanced to Diamond. What would be expected of me? How big a change? Will I have any free time?

Whenever you are stuck or finding yourself in a procrastination loop, it is ALWAYS because of an underlying fear. I have had people respond that they don’t have fear about reaching their goal. “I want to get to Diamond” or “I want to earn a 6 figure income.” The problem is, they are not progressing. If you are not making progress, there is something blocking your goals. Underlying fears cause procrastination and other sabotage behaviors. If you find yourself having a lot of “squirrel moments” or going down rabbit holes that distract you from income producing activity, there is a subconscious fear blocking your progress.

Do you know WHY you are stuck?

I didn’t know why I was stuck but once I started noticing my feelings and asking the right questions, I began to realize which underlying fears were getting in my way. Once I realized the “downside” to reaching my goal, I could start working on it with EFT.

We all have things going on in our subconscious that can turn into blocks. If you have been a distributor in a company for any length of time there will be a few dissatisfied customers or distributors. Yup, it will happen. Some people will test your patience. Some will even start a vicious cycle of drama when they feel they have been wronged. It happened to me and it was a very hard time to go through. It was easy to spot the blocks that came up from that event. It threw me into protection mode. Never again was I going to allow someone to put me in a spot where they could hurt me that way. It affected my business building. I was angry and it overflowed into everything I was doing. I started doing busy work instead of income producing activity and got stuck in a pattern of procrastination and sabotage. I was STUCK!

The problem is, when your subconscious is protecting you, it is actually putting a halt to your progress. It means well but it’s not really helping.

We all have this subconscious protection going on. It could be something really simple. You could have had some embarrassing thing happen as a child and something today reminds you of it. The trick is asking the right questions to help you realize what underlying fears are getting in your way.

Ask yourself, “What is the downside of getting to your goal?” There could be a LOT of little things that go in the downside column.

Will I have to speak in front of people?
Will I have people constantly wanting things from me?
Will I have a moments peace from people contacting me with questions, complaining, solving problems, etc.?
Will I have time for myself?
Will I be able to help my team be successful?
Will I become a target for people with bad motives?
What will my friends and family think of my goals?

There are lots of things that could be going on in your subconscious. Ask the questions and then tap on any negative issues.

Here is a little tapping on being stuck. You can change the words to anything that feels right. It doesn’t matter what points you tap. Just tap and talk through whatever comes up.

Focus in on your feelings around reaching your income or rank goal.

Essential oils that could be used with this tapping: Valor, Abundance, Acceptance, Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation, Release, Field.
Add a drop or two of essential oil to fingertips before tapping through the points.

While tapping the karate chop point on either hand, repeat these phrases, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

Even though I know I am stuck, I deeply and completely love and accept myself
Even though I’m so tired of being stuck, I deeply and completely love and accept myself
Even though I really want to get to the next goal but I am stuck and sabotaging progress, I deeply and completely love and accept myself

Tap through the points:

I am stuck.
Not making any real progress
It feels so frustrating when I am stuck.
I wish I could just reach my goals quickly like some people do.
I’m not even sure why I am stuck.
I know there is some fear blocking me.
Somewhere inside I am protecting myself from something.
I don’t feel comfortable with success so I sabotage myself.
For some reason I keep sabotaging my success.
I just can’t seem to get unstuck.
I am resisting success but I want success.
I don’t know why I keep sabotaging myself.
I want success but I can’t seem to get unstuck.
This issue keeps coming up.
I make a few steps forward but then something stops me and gets me stuck again.
I am ready to release the emotional attachment to being stuck.
I release the emotional attachment to staying stuck.
I am ready to look at the real reasons I have been staying stuck and making very slow progress.
I release the emotional attachment to being stuck.
I release the emotional attachment to blocking my progress.
I release the emotional attachment to sabotaging my progress.
I release the emotional attachment to slowing down my progress.
I release the emotional attachment to blocking my goals.
I release the emotional attachment to resisting success.
I am letting go of the fear.
I am releasing the need to protect myself from the unknown.
Letting go of the fear of what will happen.
Release and let go of the fear of success.

I choose to feel safe and confident in my success.
I deserve success.
I choose to feel comfortable reaching my biggest goals.
I forgive myself for the times I was stuck.
I feel good moving forward.
I AM the power to change my life.
I am celebrating progress and reaching my goals.
I comfortable and safe making progress and reaching my goals.
I am excited about the progress and the changes I am making.

Take a deep breath.

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Tapping For Success When You “Hate Selling”

Even though you feel passionate about your products and the opportunity, you may feel uncomfortable about “selling”. These negative feelings are impacting your business, creating blocks and resistance to volume and team growth.

Before you begin the tapping for discomfort of “selling” you will find it helpful to think about communicating in a way that you can feel good about. When you feel good about what you are saying, it doesn’t feel like selling. It feels more like sharing.

You have a solution to a problem. When you speak from a place of solving their problem, it will feel much more natural. Advanced preparation is another important key. Having something in mind to say will be a big step in releasing the uncomfortable feelings around sales.

Those of you who are essential oil distributors can make opening conversations easier with this little tip:

EVERY DAY wear an oil that will cause someone to comment on how good you smell (opening to say: “I’m wearing natural Essential Oils because I prefer a toxin free perfume. This one is called Stress Away. It smells great and who doesn’t want a little Stress Away these days? Have you ever used Essential Oils? …”

Here is an example of what I say that includes the business:
“I help people support their health by replacing toxic chemicals with essential oils while creating a great income from home so you can build and live a lifeSTYLE instead of a life-SENTENCE.”

If you know you have something that would help people break free from the struggle or challenges they are facing, isn’t there an obligation to share?

It’s like they are in prison. For some people it is a prison of poor health, for some it is working a job they hate, just to barely make ends meet. They are in prison and You Have the Key! Are you going to stand there with the key in your pocket, wondering if you should speak up and share? Are you hoping they will ask if you have the key? Or, are you going to take the key out, hold it up and say, “here is the key to your prison. Would you like this key?”
Why wouldn’t you share with them that you have the key to their prison?

Some people will say no thank you, I like my prison. I don’t want to get out of it, and that’s fine. But there are a lot of people who will say “Thank you, you are an answer to my prayer!”

A Mindset Shift

If you have any negative feelings about selling or marketing, you must shift those feelings. This is where EFT is a powerful tool.

If you feel that people will think you are pushy or only in it for the money, those are YOUR fears. As a person who has been working from my home for over 20 years, I know the wonderful feeling of FREEDOM! I especially want people I care about to feel that too.

If you are passionate about the products, that is all the more reason to let go of the negative feeling around selling. Remember, Those are all YOUR fears. They are a person who is in need of what you have to offer.

How about we do some tapping on sales and marketing? 😉

Focus in on your feelings around selling or marketing.

Essential oils that could be used with this tapping: Valor, Abundance, Acceptance, Magnify Your Purpose, Release, Field.
Add a drop or two of essential oil to fingertips before tapping through the points.

While tapping the karate chop point on either hand, repeat these phrases, (or change the words to fit your exact situation).

Even though I hate selling, I deeply love and accept myself.
Even though selling makes me feel uncomfortable, I completely love and accept myself.
Even though marketing or selling makes me anxious, I deeply love and accept myself.

Focusing on the Negative Feelings

(eyebrow) I hate selling!
(side of eye) It just feels uncomfortable.
(under eye) I feel like I am being pushy.
(nose) They are not going to like me.
(chin) I don’t want to come across like a pushy salesman.
(collarbone) People hate someone who is pushy and salesy.
(under arm) I have negative feelings about salesmen.
(head) I’m not going to be a pushy salesman.

(eyebrow) I hate selling!
(side of eye) It just feels uncomfortable.
(under eye) What if they think I am greedy.
(nose) I know they are going to think I am only in this for the money.
(chin) They won’t see that I really care about them.
(collarbone) That I really want to make a difference in their life.
(under arm) I have negative feelings and fears.
(head) What if they think I am sleezy and manipulative?

(eyebrow) How can I let my fear get in the way of helping them?
(side of eye) As long as I am afraid of what they think of me,
(under eye) I am just creating more of that bad energy.
(nose) People need what I have.
(chin) I am releasing the negative feelings about selling.
(collarbone) I am releasing it from every cell in my body.
(under arm) Releasing the discomfort about selling.
(head) Letting go of the uncomfortable feeling.

(eyebrow) People need what I have.
(side of eye) How can I not share something that might change their life?
(under eye) How can I not share this?
(nose) I was extremely grateful someone cared enough about me to share a way out.
(chin) I am going to treat my prospect the same way.
(collarbone) Helping them is more important than my fear.
(under arm) It doesn’t have to feel uncomfortable.
(head) I love how it feels to help people.

(eyebrow) I love my products and I have benefited greatly from them
(side of eye) People need a way out.
(under eye) I can help them.
(nose) I love talking to people and helping them experience freedom
(chin) I choose to feel comfortable sharing a way out.
(collarbone) I am prepared and confident talking about options to help my prospects.
(under arm) I love helping people who really want to know more about what I have
(head) I choose to feel comfortable and confident in sharing health and FREEDOM with many people.

Take a deep breath.

Tap through this script as many times as you need to.

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Raise Your Energy Vibration Before Prospecting

It’s always a good idea to do a little EFT before doing any business, especially prospecting. You need to have a good energy while doing anything business related. You need to raise your vibration. Never prospect when you are in a bad energy place.

People will be able to feel your energy. Don’t believe me? Have you ever noticed when a person is in a really bad mood? You can feel your own mood change. A sigh from someone near you can bring your energy down. Their energy is affecting you. You are affecting people with your energy. You MUST have a good ABUNDANT energy when doing business activities but especially when prospecting.

There are several essential oils that are really wonderful for raising your energy. Abundance essential oil blend by Young Living is the TOP oil blend I recommend for prospecting. Wear it like perfume but also, put a couple drops on your fingertips before you start tapping the EFT points.

If you have fear of speaking up, use a little Valor first, then tap through the points again using the Abundance oil.

Improve Your Vibration Before Prospecting

** Note: Do not get too worried about which points to tap on. You can say any of the phrases while tapping on any of the points. It’s why I love the Tap While You Gripe Technique. 😉 Just talk (or think) and tap.

Tapping on the Karate Chop point: repeat these phrases out loud, (or change the words to fit your situation).

Even though I feel prospecting is a little scary, I deeply and completely love and accept myself anyway.
Even though I don’t want to talk to people but know I want my business to grow, I accept who I am and how I feel right now.
Even though I am having a hard time approaching people, I choose to feel calm, confident and abundant before talking about my business.

Tapping through the points:
You may repeat the positive round more than once if you wish.

I feel the pressure to talk to prospects.
I feel so anxious and need to do something now.
I want to grow my business.
I feel so nervous talking to people about my business.
I am afraid they will not want what I have to share with them.
Prospecting really stresses me out.
I don’t know what to say.
I feel myself holding back.

I choose to feel calm and confident.
I do know what to say because I have prepared a few things to say that will stir interest.
I intend to feel confident when talking to prospects.
I love my product and I love sharing it with people.
I love that network marketing has given me freedom in my life.
I know this business can really change people’s lives.
I love sharing the freedom of network marketing and my awesome product.

I love knowing we all deserve abundance.
I am prepared ahead of time with what I need to talk to new prospects.
I am confident with the words I have prepared and the marketing materials I always have with me.
Every time I have to step outside of my comfort zone I choose to feel confident doing it.
I enjoy making new contacts every day.
I appreciate the prosperity growing through my business.
I’m grateful for all the new opportunities for abundance.
I appreciate all the lessons I have learned.
I am so grateful for all the prosperity in my life.
I choose to feel energized and motivated.
I choose to feel calm and confident in everything I do.
I love the feeling of confidence and growing abundance as I am prospecting on a DAILY basis.
I am good at what I do.
I choose to find it easy to talk to prospects.
I choose to find it easy to make new contacts.
I choose to find it easy to pick up the phone.
I choose to find it easy to step out of my comfort zone.
I love what I am doing.
I choose to feel calm and confident all day, every day.

Essential Oil Blends that work well with this EFT Script:
Abundance, Motivation, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Magnify Your Purpose, Release, Transformation, Valor.

EFT Points:

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Releasing Fear of Success With EFT

We often think it is fear of failure that is holding us back but, for most people, it is actually fear of success that gets in the way of success. You may be saying, “No way. I really want success.” The problem is, your subconscious may be saying the opposite. There is often one or more subconscious fears that are blocking the way.

fear-of-success Success brings change and that can be scary. We all feel more comfortable with what we are familiar with. It’s called a Comfort Zone. To be successful in anything, we need to step out of our comfort zone. This is especially true as we are working toward raising our rank to Diamond Level in Network Marketing. Lots of changes come as you rise through the ranks in your company. You want to get to Diamond but there is a fear of the unknown. What will be expected of you as the team gets larger and larger.

Fear of the unknown can cause you to subconsciously sabotage your success. Lots of fears come under the category of unknown. How will friends and family feel about your success? Will they be threatened by it? Will You lose friends?
Will you have to do things you don’t like? Example: speak in front of a large group.

Success in network marketing will mean an increase of income. That can trigger a host of subconscious fears. You may have an income set point that you have running in your subconscious. There can be a fear of having too much income that keeps you sabotaging your success. You may be saying, “No, I really want more income.” But these fears are running in your subconscious. They are conflicting with what you really want.

One sign that this is happening is that you find yourself procrastinating. Procrastination is a way we subconsciously sabotage our success.

We all have areas of our life where feel subconscious fears that show up as resistance. The tapping script below might help you shift some of those fears. In upcoming blog posts I will touch on some common fears that people have in their subconscious programming and some EFT scripts you can use to shift to a more confident state of mind.

Add a drop or two of your favorite Young Living Essential Oil Blend to your fingertips as you tap through the EFT script below. Here are a few ideas: Abundance, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release, Valor

Fear of the Unknown:

Tapping on the Karate Chop point:

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Tapping through the points:

But I really do want to be free of the constant struggle of earning a living.
Have time and really live my life instead of struggle to make ends meet.
I want to be home with my kids. (Or travel, or spend more time doing ________.)
I want to have fun working from home and helping others build a freedom business with me.
That’s really exciting.
Nothing to be afraid of.
I can release the fear of the unknown.
I AM releasing the fear of the unknown.
I AM releasing the fear of success.
I am releasing my fear of change.
Releasing all the ways I resist change.
I’m releasing it from every cell in my body.

I have changed a lot already over the years.
I have enjoyed a lot of the changes I have made already.
I am focusing on the fun I will be having.
I am focusing on the new friends I will be making.
I am focusing on all the people I will be able to help.
I am enjoying my success.
I am feeling safe and confident in my successful business.
I am eagerly anticipating all the unknown pleasures that success will bring my way.

I am enjoying success and all the changes that go with it.
I am allowing myself to make positive changes.
I am enjoying the changes that come with success.
I am joyfully allowing my success and the change that comes with it.
I am allowing myself to feel comfortable with the all changes that success brings.
I am excited about the unknown changes that are coming with my success.
I am grateful for the positive changes that come with my success.
I am moving forward and embracing change in a calm and confident way!
What fun success is bringing me.

Tap through this script as many times as needed. This is one you could tap every morning as you start your day.

You may want to read the article: 5 Tips to Make Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone Easier

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