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Essential Oils & EFT For Motivation to Work Towards Goals

January is the start of a new year and a time that many people are thinking about the changes they want to make. Especially after the changes we have all been through over the past couple years dealing with Covid and all the ways that has affected our lives, many people make resolutions and goals for the new year. Some common ones are goals to lose weight, exercise more, overcome a habit like smoking or drinking too much, find a way to improve financial situation by starting a business or reducing debt.

Young Living has several wonderful essential oil blends that are awesome to use with EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) and any kind of work making changes or working with goals. EFT is a powerful tool in making changes and removing negative feelings that block success.

Here are a couple links with some info on how to do EFT:
https://www.melodiekantner.com/how-to-do-eft

Two oil blends I love to use with EFT are Release and Motivation, especially these days with Covid and all the other craziness that seems to be going on in the world.
Release helps release negative emotions that we sometimes get sucked into. I use Release in the beginning rounds of EFT where you are focusing on tapping through the negative emotions.

Motivation: This is one of my favorite oil blends for help getting moving. Motivation oil can help you overcome negativity and procrastination, so you can move past old patterns and reach your goals.

Using Motivation oil and EFT For lack of motivation when you are not motivated to do whatever it is that will move you closer to a goal. Not motivated to exercise? Not motivated to do a business task? Not motivated to eat healthy food choices? Whatever it is, insert that thought as you are tapping through the Tapping Script below. Don’t worry about getting the words right or the exact points. Just think about what you are feeling and tap through the points.

Apply 1 – 3 drops of Release oil on your fingertips, then tap on the Karate Chop Point with the oiled up fingertips. As you are tapping the EFT Points, you will have enough remaining oil to carry to all the other points.

While tapping the Karate Chop Point, Repeat 3 Times:

Even though I can’t get motivated, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I don’t feel like doing anything, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I’m just not motivated, I choose to do it now.

Round One: Focusing on the Feelings

(eyebrow) I am not motivated.
(side of eye) I don’t feel like doing it.
(under eye) I just can’t seem to get started
(under nose) I am resisting getting started.
(chin) I don’t know what to do so I put it off till later.
(collarbone) I’m a little tired so I will wait till later.
(under arm) I don’t feel motivated.
(head) I’m tired of thinking about this.

(eyebrow) I don’t want to get it going.
(side of eye) Yes I do want to get it going.
(under eye) I’m feeling unmotivated.
(under nose) Releasing the habit of putting things off
(chin) Letting go of feeling unmotivated.
(collarbone) I am releasing the feeling unmotivated.
(under arm) Letting go of the feeling unmotivated.
(head) Release and let go of the feeling unmotivated.

Round Two: Switch to Positive add a couple drops of Motivation to your fingertips, or, if you prefer another oil, go with what feels right to you.

(eyebrow) I choose to feel motivated.
(side of eye) I choose to get moving.
(under eye) I step into energy and motivation.
(under nose) I choose to move forward one step at a time.
(chin) I feel good moving forward.
(collarbone) I choose to move forward in a way that feels even more motivating.
(under arm) I enjoy taking action.
(head) I choose to feel energized and motivated.

Here is another EFT session on Motivation:
EFT Tapping For Those Days When You Feel Crappy and Unmotivated:
https://www.melodiekantner.com/eft-tapping-for-those-days-when-you-feel-crappy-and-unmotivated

Release That Angry Mood, It’s Blocking Abundance – EFT Session
https://www.melodiekantner.com/release-that-angry-mood-its-blocking-abundance-eft-session

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What If Tapping For Network Marketing Success

I learned “WHAT IF” tapping from Carol Look, one of my favorite EFT mentors. Adding the question, WHAT IF? to your tapping allows you to imagine the possibilities, looking beyond what you see in your life right now. It is our limiting beliefs that can get in the way of the success we would like to see. It is important to believe you can achieve your goals.
What If Royal Crown Diamond
Most people aren’t thinking of ranking to Diamond or Royal Crown Diamond when they start out. It’s always the income. It’s a way to take control of your financial situation, whether to add a little extra income or to grow it into a business that could become fulltime income.

If you have the belief that earning substantial full time income in your network marketing business, will happen for other people but not for you, this limiting belief can get in the way and become a block to your success in the business.

If you have the belief that people can’t afford to buy products or the belief that you can’t build a business during a bad economy, these are limiting beliefs that will block your success.

Here is an important fact to remember: Network Marketing and Direct Sales businesses thrive during economic down times. People are often looking for ways to supplement their income, PLUS, many of the products offered by these companies are things people use on a daily basis. Why not earn a little income from things people need to use every day. Examples are cleaners, laundry soap, personal care products, health and stress relief and more.

Let’s clear those limiting beliefs right now.

Use the What If tapping to look beyond your limiting belief to visualize the possibilities and What if YOU can TOO? When you feel any limiting beliefs coming up, focus on those and keep tapping through the points and releasing the limiting beliefs.

For this tapping, I like to use essential oil blends that help you relax and think about the future. A few Young Living Oil Blend possibilities are: Abundance, Envision, Believe, Magnify Your Purpose, Transformation, Into The Future, Valor.

There are lots of possibilities for oils to use. Go with whatever feels right to you. The added essential oil is not necessary but the oil helps infuse extra energy into your tapping session.

If you are using essential oil in your tapping session, just add a couple drops to your fingertips before you begin tapping and start tapping through the points:

Starting on the Karate Chop point:

Even though I don’t believe I can build a strong income with this business, especially in this bad economy, WHAT IF I have been wrong about this?
Even though building a substantial income with network marketing works for other people but not me, WHAT IF I could actually build a full time income.
Even though I have had all these limiting beliefs about my ability to build a strong, abundant, income producing network marketing business, WHAT IF it IS possible for me?

Now tap through the rest of the points: (It doesn’t really matter which points, just tap through.)

What If I really could build this business into a substantial income?
What if I have learned someone else’s wrong limiting belief about success being for other people but not me?
What if the limiting beliefs I have learned are NOT TRUE?
What if I am in control of all of these limiting beliefs?
What if I am a really powerful business builder?
What if I really am a Diamond in the making?
What if, all this time my limiting beliefs have been blocking my efforts and making me spin my wheels. I have been blocking I have to do is believe it’s possible?
What if limiting beliefs are slowing me down like a stuck wheel on a shopping cart?
What if I can release these limiting beliefs and blocks to my building an abundantly income producing network marketing business?
What if I can actually build a business that would, not only help me but also help many others build a strong income working from home.
What if I am just as deserving and capable as anyone else who has built a successful business working from home?
What if I do have what it takes to build this business as big as I want it, all the way to the top rank?
What if I really CAN do this?
What if I DO deserve an abundantly successful income producing Diamond sized business just as much as they do?
What if I am releasing these blocks and limiting beliefs right now?
What if I am leading a team of happy abundantly income producers right now?
What if we are releasing our limiting beliefs and helping each other build this business?
What if I really could believe it?
Why NOT?
I’m not so different as they are!
I’m sure some of them had limiting beliefs too.
They just kept moving forward toward the goal!
One day at a time.
One Income Producing DAY at a time!
I can do that too!!!
I KNOW I can!
I have oils and EFT to help me.
I’m tapping away any limiting beliefs!
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the belief that I can’t build this business into a substantial income!
I really CAN do this!
I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders and we are building a strong, abundant, income producing network marketing business TOGETHER!

Take a deep breath!

I recommend doing this tapping session daily. Things will come up in daily life. There will be things that feel frustrating. Unexpected bills, a pandemic or who knows what. When that happens, keep moving forward with tapping and clearing limiting beliefs. I will be doing it with you! Together we can do this!! 😉

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Abundance and Gratitude EFT Tapping To Grow Your Business

Abundance and Gratitude essential oil blends are two oils I like to recommend to lift the abundance attracting energy and focus on growing your home business. Abundance Oil is a good one for when you want a more abundant energy and attracting good things. Gratitude Oil is great for focusing on feeling grateful.

Gratitude is one of the most powerful positive abundance attracting energies. Focusing in the things you are grateful for. This shifts out of negative and into a much better energy. It affects the mood for the better and makes everything better.

I recommend using some Gratitude Oil along with Gratitude Tapping. Try it. It’s a wonderful uplift.
Add a couple drops of Gratitude Oil on your fingertips before you begin tapping through the EFT Points.

If you don’t know how to do EFT, go to the website below and see how to do this easy Emotional Freedom Technique.
https://www.melodiekantner.com/how-to-do-eft

Gratitude Tapping

Today was an abundant day.
How abundant I am!
I found money on the ground!
Yeah! I love attracting good things!
I got a coupon for $10.00 off business supplies at Staples.
My hubby did the dishes so I could do a little watercolor painting.
The wren singing in the tree outside my window as I paint.
The beauty of creation.
I learned a great business tip online.
My son saying, “Hey mom. You wanna hang out on Zoom?”
The smell of Rose Oil.
Clean sheets.
Fresh roasted coffee.

You get the idea. Just tap through the points and think of all the abundant things that happened during the day.

When you find even one penny, it’s MONEY! Say I attracted MONEY, not a penny. Your subconscious doesn’t know the difference between a penny and money.

Here’s another option:

Just start in tapping when something abundant happens. This is a great time to tap because you are feeling the abundant emotion. That is powerful and you can enhance it and program it into your cells by tapping. Discreetly tap on your fingers at the base of the nail. ?

How abundant I am!
I found more money!
I am always finding money!
That is SO COOL!
It seems like I find money wherever I go.
It’s like I am a magnet attracting money.
I LOVE attracting money!
I’m so ABUNDANT!

Abundance Oil is one that we really need, especially in the stressful times we are living and the economy worries many people are feeling.

If you are familiar with the Law of Attraction, you know that what you focus on you attract more of. When you worry and stress over the economy, you hinder the abundant energy you have in your body. That makes it almost impossible to build a business or attract any kind of abundance.

I have seen the Law of Attraction working from both sides. Years ago, I went through a time where I was desperate to generate enough income to just make ends meet. I was in a sales job with a home cleaning system where I had to visit people’s home to demonstrate the cleaner and only got paid when I sold one. It seemed as though I couldn’t sell one if my life depended on it. Actually, my financial life did depend on it.

I didn’t understand the Law of Attraction back than but I do today. The reason I couldn’t make any sales is because I had an energy vibration of desperation. I desperately needed a sale. I was radiating that desperate energy. People could feel it. I didn’t realize I was affecting people with my desperate energy.

Here is another example – Around that same time my husband and I were traveling and doing art shows for our jewelry designs. Mark, my husband, made flameworked glass beads and I did copper enamel designs. We put them together with gemstones and made beautiful works of wearable art.

We won several best of show awards with our designs and even drew crowds with Mark demonstrating glass bead making over a flame, but making enough money to create a living was a real struggle. We would often just cover show expenses.

Oh, how I wish I had known about Abundance oil back then! Well, today I am so very grateful for Abundance oil blend. It is, hands down, my favorite oil. I use it EVERY DAY. By using Abundance oil, I become like a magnet attracting abundance. I would never consider touching anything business related without using Abundance oil first.

Abundance is a blend that raises your energetic vibration to attract greater prosperity into your life. It is an oil blend that is “created to enhance the frequency of the harmonic magnetic energy field that surrounds us. This higher frequency creates the “law of attraction,” a harmonic magnetic energy field around oneself.

How To Use Abundance Oil Blend

Use Abundance Oil blend first thing in the morning to get a good energy for the day, then use it whenever you feel the need for an abundant lift. Put 2 or 3 drops in your hands and rub together. Inhale deeply.

Use Abundance Oil before doing anything business related.

Add a few drops of Abundance Oil to cleaning water, especially when cleaning your office.

Diffuse it in your home office.

Put Abundance Oil on before paying bills.

Use Abundance Oil With EFT.

An example of an EFT session below on worries about the economy. You could also use Peace & Calming for the first part of the tapping script while you focus on negative emotions, then shift to Abundance Oil and focus on more positive abundance attracting energy.

Add a couple drops of Essential Oil to your fingertips before you begin tapping.

Tapping on the Karate Chop Point:

Even though I am afraid because of the economy, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though the news is full of depressing things about the economy and people losing their jobs, I choose to accept myself and release my fears.
Even though I am worried about how will we will pay all our bills during this worrisome time, I choose to accept myself and release my fears.

Tapping through the EFT Points: (It doesn’t matter which points, just tap through)

This economy is so scary.
I am afraid there isn’t enough income these days of quarantine.
The news is full of scary things.
So stressful.
I have bills to pay and obligations to meet.
I am feeling all this stress.
Stress and worry.
What if this gets worse?
I can’t help but to worry about the future.
I’m a little afraid there is no hope.
Feeling stress and fear.
OK, I know these negative thoughts only feed the fear.

I choose to shift to a better energy.
Negative thoughts and feelings block abundance.
I am choosing a better energy.
I am releasing the fear about the economy.
We have been through bad economy before.
Releasing negative emotions about the economy.
Releasing the fear that there is not enough money.
Release and let go of fears about income.
Releasing fears about the economy.
Letting go of the fear that there will never be enough.
I am releasing the fear that I won’t be able to pay my bills.
Letting go of the stress.
I am releasing all my fears about the economy.

I choose to feel calm and safe.
I feel confident in my ability to attract the income I need.
I choose to feel excited about the opportunity that this economy is creating.
This is a great time to work on my Side Hustle with my Young Living Business.

I am confident there are plenty of people who want to supplement their income.
Some of those would love to join me.
We can do this together.
I choose to feel comfortable and full of expectation in any economy.
No matter what is happening around me,
I choose to be calm and in peace.
I am strong.
I am confident.
I am peaceful.
I am attracting abundance, no matter what the economy is like.

Take a deep breath.

I added some words to this tapping session about Plan B, Side Hustle because it is these times when the economy is bad, people are looking for ways to earn extra income. Network Marketing and Direct Sales Businesses actually thrive in bad economy because of people working to build supplemental income.

If you are already working your Plan B, EFT and essential oils can be really helpful to shift to a more abundance attracting energy.

If you have not started your Plan B, Side Hustle yet, why not join us in Young Living? Besides essential oils, Young Living has Thieves Products with Hand Sanitizers, Cleaners, supplements and more.

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EFT To Release Quarantine Fears and Stress

We are living in rough times. People are feeling all kinds of stress. So many things have changed in such a short time because of the Coronavirus. There are worries about keeping ourselves and our family healthy, social distancing, cleaning and sanitizing and besides that, many have lost income and are experiencing financial stress.

EFT is a wonderful tool to help with fear and stressful times. Below is a tapping script example for releasing fears and stress.

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Before you begin tapping, stop and take notice of your level of emotion on the issue you feeling. Give it a number between 0 and 10 of how strong the fear, stress or other negative emotion is. Tap through the points until you are down to a 0.

To use essential oils with EFT, just put a couple drops of the essential oil on your fingertips and on the karate chop point before you begin tapping. The oil will be carried to all the other points as you tap.

Start with Valor and tap through the points. Valor is beautiful oil. It smells great and it helps with when you need a shot of courage. Valor, as the name implies, is an oil blend that is very strengthening emotionally. Something we really need these days.

Valor also balances the body’s energy meridians and emotions. It’s a wonderful oil to add to and EFT routine. You can use Valor before you begin tapping to help make everything you are doing more effective, then finish up with Valor to give you strength to move forward.

Don’t worry the exact tapping points and words. This is an example. You can use it as is, or change it up and add in any words you feel are more how you are feeling. As you start tapping, you might find things coming to mind that you feel an emotional charge on. Just tap on those things too.

Side of the Hand:
Even though I have all this fear in my stomach and I am stressed out about everything that is going on with Corona virus, I choose to love and accept myself.
Even though I have all this fear in my stomach and I am afraid of where this is heading, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I am full of fear because this is affecting so many things, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Starting at eyebrow point:

It’s so crazy out there.
Things changed so suddenly.
I have all this fear in the pit of my stomach
This is affecting everything.
I have all this fear in my stomach
I am really stressed out and afraid.
I’m am afraid someone in my family will get this virus.
I’m worried _____________. (continue on a bit with some specifics you have been stressing about, then continue.)
Fear about all kinds of things.
Fear about the economy.
Fear about not having enough income.
Fear about getting the things I need for my family.
It’s already affecting my income.
Who knows how long this will last.
What kind of things will be affected.
Look at what’s happening already.
This fear in the pit of my stomach.
I have all these fears inside.
What’s going to happen?
How will all of this end up?
All this fear in my stomach.
I have all these uncomfortable feelings.
Everything is changing.
This is so scary.
I choose to release it. (Here is a good add some Release essential oil to your fingertips)
Releasing the fear of all these scary changes.
Releasing all of the fear.
Releasing all of the anger.
Releasing all of the anxiety.
Releasing all of the worry.
Releasing all of the stress.
I know these are stressful times and I know I may need to tap every day.
Things keep changing.
Releasing the fear of all these scary changes.
Releasing the stress.
Releasing the stress.
Releasing the stress.
I have this side hustle with my network marketing business.
I had the idea to get my products wholesale, then, maybe earn a little extra income to cover the cost of my products.
This side hustle could be a big help.
It gives me a bit of control.
Plus, I will be along side others who are in the same situation.
Dealing with the changes going on and finding a way to help our situation.
We have all kinds of products people need right now.
Cleaning products and things to support a healthy body.
I’m releasing the doubts about that.
Releasing this fear and worry.
Releasing them at a cellular level.
Allowing myself to know we will get through this together.
We are in this together.
We can DO THIS TOGETHER!
These products have changed my life in so many ways.
I really want to share with my friends.
It’s actually fun when we do this together.
My success benefits other people as well.
It’s a win-win situation
I choose to allow peace.
I choose to allow a lot of success.
I have what it takes.
It’s time for something new.
I allow myself to thrive,
And I know there are people cheering me on.
I am releasing the fear and allowing myself to heal.
Releasing any remaining self doubt.
I am attracting all kinds of wonderful things to me
I am full of courage and confidence.
I am moving forward with courage.
Filled with courage.
Every cell in my body is filling with courage and confidence.

Take a deep breath.

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Tapping for Holding Back From Speaking Up

Do you ever find yourself holding back when opportunities arise to speak about your products or the business? Sometimes we get in our own way and make things feel larger than they need to be.
Think about all the times you shared your favorite recipe, a movie you really enjoyed or if something really helped you in some way. It’s easy to talk about. Your business and your product use should feel the same way.

When we are selling the product, it somehow feels different but if you just shift your mindset a bit, you can make it feel as natural and easy.

Don’t be afraid to say you sell the product. “Yes, I sell these products. They have helped my family so much I decided I needed to earn enough to cover my oil habit. It ended up growing into a full time career.” 😉

Or, “I love these products so much and I can’t live without them so I decided to sell them and earn a little extra income. Who knows how far it can go. Hey! Why not join me and we can do this together. What fun we could have working together supporting our family’s physical and financial health!”

Don’t make it feel weird, just matter of fact. No worries if they do not want to join you. They may down the line. Keep reminding them by using the product front of them and even sharing something that will help them. Not salesy, just sharing.

It is really important that you really believe in your product and business. Find a product you LOVE! I know some people can sell anything but most of us are not that way but we DO love talking about things we love. For me, essential oils was easy because I LOVE things that smell good. Years ago, when I began my business, did NOT know that most of the scented perfumes and candles were full of toxic chemicals. Thankfully I have learned and replaced the toxic products with healthy ones, but for me, that’s not what makes me feel joy and want to talk about it. It’s the way I can lift the mood with just a drop of oil. It’s playing with making my own skin care products it’s so many fun things I can’t list them all. Find what brings you joy and talk it up. 😉

If you have products that help people strengthen their health or immune system, replace toxic chemicals and have healthier options, there is a mission in that. People need to know there are better option.

Whatever you need to do, refocus on WHY you’re doing this business and what you LOVE about the product.

It’s true, there are times when you need a little help. This is where I like to do a little tapping to get my mind focused on what I intend for growing the business.

Here is some tapping to help release the fear of speaking up:

If you are using essential oils with your tapping session, add the oils to your fingertips and tap through the points. It really does not matter which points you tap. Just tap through the points focusing on the words and feelings.
I love using Valor for courage to speak up. Other oil blends that are good with this EFT session on belief are Abundance, Acceptance, Gathering, Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation, Release.

Side of the Hand:
Even though I’m holding myself back from speaking up about my products (or the business),
I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I’m holding back from taking action, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I’m holding back from sharing the awesome products and business I have, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.

Starting at eyebrow point:
I keep stopping myself from talking about my products.
I keep holding back.
I LOVE my products but I keep holding back.
I know they will benefit from them like I have.
I have all these fears inside,
I fear they will reject me.
What if they hate network marketing?
What if they think I am stupid for being in a network marketing business?
I hate feeling like a sales person.
I have all these uncomfortable feelings.
Why do I feel that way?
I LOVE these products.
They have changed my life in so many ways.
I love how I feel.
I really want to share with my friends.
I have no problem talking about a movie I loved, or a recipe I love or even a product I love.
My earning a commission from products I share should not feel yucky!
I love these products so much I decided to earn a little extra money selling them.
It’s not weird at all.
Plus, It’s actually fun when we do this together.
It’s not weird to talk about the products I LOVE!
I have decided to stop making it feel uncomfortable.
I release the emotional attachment to holding back.
I release the emotional attachment to fear of rejection.
If I asked a friend out for coffee and they said they couldn’t do it right now, do I feel rejected?
NO!
It’s not rejection of me!
I release the emotional attachment to holding back sharing the good things I have.
I release the emotional attachment to holding back sharing the products I LOVE!

I am open to talking about a product that I actually sell.
I love it so much I wanted to sell it!
There is nothing weird about that.
Letting go of any old ideas that holds me back from speaking about a product I love.
Releasing any ideas that told me it wasn’t okay to talk about a product I love,
just because I happen to sell it.
I had a fear they would think I was only trying to sell to them so I didn’t speak up,
but I am THANKFUL someone shared with me.
It has changed my life!
I’m letting that old way of thinking go now.
I’m releasing that way of thinking go now.
I’m releasing the emotional attachment to that way of thinking go now.
I now know it’s okay to talk about a product I sell.
I’ll just say, “I loved these products so much I decided to sell them and earn a little extra income to pay for my oily habit.”
Nothing uncomfortable or weird about that at all.
I’m releasing any fear of sharing what I LOVE!

I delight in sharing what I LOVE.
I love talking about it.
I love rolling oils on people
I love taking action.
I love helping my friends.
I love sharing.
I radiate confidence.
I am full of passion.
I love how confident I am feeling.

Take a deep breath.

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