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Tapping Stress Away!

We are living in rough times. People are feeling all kinds of stress. So many things have changed in such a short time because of the pandemic. There are worries about keeping ourselves and our family healthy, social distancing, cleaning and sanitizing and besides that, many are experiencing financial stress because of lost income and rising prices.

As you are working on your goals every day, it is important to have a good positive attitude. This is especially important when you are working on income and abundance goals.

This is a time to do some EFT tapping to help shift your mood to a positive energy.

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Before you begin tapping, stop and take notice of your level of emotion on the issue you feeling. Give it a number between 0 and 10 of how strong the fear, stress or other negative emotion is. Tap through the points until you are down to a 0.

Start with Valor and tap through the points. Valor is beautiful oil. It smells great and it helps with when you need a shot of courage. Valor, as the name implies, is an oil blend that is very strengthening emotionally. Something we really need these days.

Valor also balances the body’s energy meridians and emotions. It’s a wonderful oil to add to and EFT routine. You can use Valor before you begin tapping to help make everything you are doing more effective, then finish up with Valor to give you strength to move forward.

Don’t worry the exact tapping points and words. This is an example. You can use it as is, or change it up and add in any words you feel are more how you are feeling. As you start tapping, you might find things coming to mind that you feel an emotional charge on. Just tap on those things too.

Side of the Hand:
Even though things have changed so much, I choose to love and accept myself.
Even though everything has changed since the pandemic, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though everything has changed and I am feeling fear, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Starting at eyebrow point:

Things changed so suddenly.
Covid has changed a lot of things.
The way we do business.
Everything has changed.
Now there are rising prices.
I have all this fear in the pit of my stomach
This is affecting everything.
I have all this fear in my stomach
I am really stressed out and afraid.
I’m worried _____________. (continue on a bit with some specifics you have been stressing about, then continue.)
Fear about all kinds of things.
Fear about the economy.
Fear about not having enough income
Fear about getting the things I need for my family.
It’s already affecting my income.
Who knows how long this will last.
What kind of things will be affected.
Look at what’s happening already.
This fear in the pit of my stomach.
I have all these fears inside.
What’s going to happen?
How will all of this end up?
All this fear in my stomach.
I have all these uncomfortable feelings.
Everything is changing.
This is so scary.
I choose to release it.
Releasing the fear of all these scary changes.
Releasing all of the fear.
Releasing all of the anger.
Releasing all of the anxiety.
Releasing all of the worry.
Releasing all of the stress.
I know these are stressful times and I know I may need to tap every day.
Releasing the fear of all these scary changes.
I am just going to relax and roll with the punches.
I have this side hustle with products I love.
More than just getting the products wholesale,
I could earn a little extra income to cover the cost of my products.
Who knows, maybe I can do something even more.
This side hustle could be a big help.
It gives me a bit of control.
Plus, I will be along side others who are in the same situation.
Dealing with the changes going on and finding a way to help our situation.
We have all kinds of products people need right now.
Cleaning products and things to support a healthy body.
I’m releasing the doubts about that.
Releasing this fear and worry.
Releasing them at a cellular level.
Allowing myself to know we will get through this together.
We are in this together.
We can DO THIS TOGETHER!
These products have changed my life in so many ways.
I really want to share with my friends.
It’s actually fun when we do this together.
My success benefits other people as well.
It’s a win-win situation
I choose to allow peace.
I choose to allow a lot of success.
I have what it takes.
It’s time for something new.
I allow myself to thrive,
And I know there are people cheering me on.
I am releasing the fear and allowing myself to heal.
Releasing any remaining self doubt.
I am attracting all kinds of wonderful things to me
I am full of courage and confidence.
I am moving forward with courage.
Filled with courage.
Every cell in my body is filling with courage and confidence.

Take a deep breath.

Tap through as many times as you need.

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EFT To Release Fear Of Change

If you really want success in network marketing or any important goal you have, you need to get rid of negative self-limiting beliefs. That can be a challenge because we all have things from our past that has affected our mental programming. Those things factor in to how we move through life today.

One underlying fear that you may not even be aware of is the fear of change.

It’s funny, you are working toward a goal because you want to change things but there is an underlying fear of change. You don’t have to be a mental giant to see that is going to be a major block to progress. It’s like climbing up a hill dragging a heavy object behind you. The intensity of the fear determines how heavy the block. If it’s just a little bit, you may only be slowed down but if it’s a really intense fear, it could keep you at a standstill for a long time.

The fear of change applies to all kinds of things: business goals, weight loss goals, spiritual goals, etc.

The fear of change can be a big one. It is a fear that you may not even recognize but it could be getting in the way or slowing you down. It’s so much easier to stay with what you are familiar with, in your comfort zone.

Procrastination is one sign that you have some subconscious fear that is blocking your path. If you find that you are procrastinating things that would really move your business forward, you most likely have a fear of success. There are many little fears that can be going on.

When you notice you are procrastinating, stop and evaluate your feelings about success in your business. Think about what it will be like when you reach your goal. Whatever the goal is, picture yourself there. What feelings come up?

Do you notice any little negative feelings when you ask yourself these questions:

If I am successful in my network marketing business, what will happen? Will I have a lot of responsibility? Success in the network marketing profession requires that I will be a leader of a large group of people. Will I be able to lead a group of people? Am I responsible for their success? Will people be calling me and asking all kinds of questions? What if I don’t know the answers?

Will I have to speak in front of people at company events?

What if I start earning a lot of money? Will people start taking advantage of me?

How will my friends react if I become a big success in this business? Will they change how they feel about me? Will they be jealous of my success?

There are all kinds of underlying fears that can become blocks to our making progress. Those blocks can cause you to procrastinate and not be focused on the tasks that really produce results in business.

You can do some EFT to help release the fear of change. Try the EFT script below. Add any word changes that would better fit your feelings around this issue.

Young Living Essential oil blends that work well with this issue: Valor, Abundance, Acceptance, Believe, Dream Catcher, Highest Potential, Into The Future, Motivation, Magnify Your Purpose, Release
There are lots of possibilities for oils to use. Go with whatever feels right to you. The added essential oil is not necessary but the oil helps infuse extra energy into your tapping session.

If you are using essential oil in your tapping session, just add a couple drops to your fingertips before you begin tapping and start tapping through the points:

Start on the Karate chop point:
Even though I am afraid things will change too much if I am successful, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though success means change and that is scary, I choose to move ahead anyway.
Even though I am afraid of the changes that are coming so I am sabotaging success, I choose to release the fear and move confidently forward.

Tap through the other EFT Points:
I know things will change when I am successful.
What if others start looking to me for direction?
What if I let them down?
Part of me is afraid of being too successful in my business.
Part of me wants things to stay the same.
What if people look at me differently?
It all seems so scary.
So many changes.
I don’t know what to expect.

I know what to expect if I stay here in this spot.
Success feels scary.
I am uncomfortable with the changes that come with success.
It is easier to keep things as they are.
I am afraid of change.
This fear of change is affecting the way I build my business.
This fear of change is holding me back.
It is easier to stay with what I am familiar with.
I do want success and that means change.
I really DO want change.

Round Two: Implant Positive

I do want success and that means change.
I have decided to relax and let success come.
I know there will be changes.
I am confident about adjusting to the changes.
I know I will be safe in my success.
Changes will be a good thing.
Releasing the fear of change.
Releasing those old limitations
These limitations are just illusions
Releasing them at a cellular level and really setting myself free.
I DO want the changes that come with success.
I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.

I have decided to relax and let success come.
I know there will be changes.
I am confident about adjusting to the changes.
I know I will be safe in my success.
Changes will be a good thing.
I release the fear of change.
I DO want the changes that come with success.
I choose to feel comfortable and confident in my success.

(Repeat the last section as many times as you feel you need it in order to shift the energy)

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What If Tapping For Network Marketing Success

I learned “WHAT IF” tapping from Carol Look, one of my favorite EFT mentors. Adding the question, WHAT IF? to your tapping allows you to imagine the possibilities, looking beyond what you see in your life right now. It is our limiting beliefs that can get in the way of the success we would like to see. It is important to believe you can achieve your goals.
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Most people aren’t thinking of ranking to Diamond or Royal Crown Diamond when they start out. It’s always the income. It’s a way to take control of your financial situation, whether to add a little extra income or to grow it into a business that could become fulltime income.

If you have the belief that earning substantial full time income in your network marketing business, will happen for other people but not for you, this limiting belief can get in the way and become a block to your success in the business.

If you have the belief that people can’t afford to buy products or the belief that you can’t build a business during a bad economy, these are limiting beliefs that will block your success.

Here is an important fact to remember: Network Marketing and Direct Sales businesses thrive during economic down times. People are often looking for ways to supplement their income, PLUS, many of the products offered by these companies are things people use on a daily basis. Why not earn a little income from things people need to use every day. Examples are cleaners, laundry soap, personal care products, health and stress relief and more.

Let’s clear those limiting beliefs right now.

Use the What If tapping to look beyond your limiting belief to visualize the possibilities and What if YOU can TOO? When you feel any limiting beliefs coming up, focus on those and keep tapping through the points and releasing the limiting beliefs.

For this tapping, I like to use essential oil blends that help you relax and think about the future. A few Young Living Oil Blend possibilities are: Abundance, Envision, Believe, Magnify Your Purpose, Transformation, Into The Future, Valor.

There are lots of possibilities for oils to use. Go with whatever feels right to you. The added essential oil is not necessary but the oil helps infuse extra energy into your tapping session.

If you are using essential oil in your tapping session, just add a couple drops to your fingertips before you begin tapping and start tapping through the points:

Starting on the Karate Chop point:

Even though I don’t believe I can build a strong income with this business, especially in this bad economy, WHAT IF I have been wrong about this?
Even though building a substantial income with network marketing works for other people but not me, WHAT IF I could actually build a full time income.
Even though I have had all these limiting beliefs about my ability to build a strong, abundant, income producing network marketing business, WHAT IF it IS possible for me?

Now tap through the rest of the points: (It doesn’t really matter which points, just tap through.)

What If I really could build this business into a substantial income?
What if I have learned someone else’s wrong limiting belief about success being for other people but not me?
What if the limiting beliefs I have learned are NOT TRUE?
What if I am in control of all of these limiting beliefs?
What if I am a really powerful business builder?
What if I really am a Diamond in the making?
What if, all this time my limiting beliefs have been blocking my efforts and making me spin my wheels. I have been blocking I have to do is believe it’s possible?
What if limiting beliefs are slowing me down like a stuck wheel on a shopping cart?
What if I can release these limiting beliefs and blocks to my building an abundantly income producing network marketing business?
What if I can actually build a business that would, not only help me but also help many others build a strong income working from home.
What if I am just as deserving and capable as anyone else who has built a successful business working from home?
What if I do have what it takes to build this business as big as I want it, all the way to the top rank?
What if I really CAN do this?
What if I DO deserve an abundantly successful income producing Diamond sized business just as much as they do?
What if I am releasing these blocks and limiting beliefs right now?
What if I am leading a team of happy abundantly income producers right now?
What if we are releasing our limiting beliefs and helping each other build this business?
What if I really could believe it?
Why NOT?
I’m not so different as they are!
I’m sure some of them had limiting beliefs too.
They just kept moving forward toward the goal!
One day at a time.
One Income Producing DAY at a time!
I can do that too!!!
I KNOW I can!
I have oils and EFT to help me.
I’m tapping away any limiting beliefs!
I am releasing the emotional attachment to the belief that I can’t build this business into a substantial income!
I really CAN do this!
I am attracting strong, confident, successful business builders and we are building a strong, abundant, income producing network marketing business TOGETHER!

Take a deep breath!

I recommend doing this tapping session daily. Things will come up in daily life. There will be things that feel frustrating. Unexpected bills, a pandemic or who knows what. When that happens, keep moving forward with tapping and clearing limiting beliefs. I will be doing it with you! Together we can do this!! 😉

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EFT To Release Quarantine Fears and Stress

We are living in rough times. People are feeling all kinds of stress. So many things have changed in such a short time because of the Coronavirus. There are worries about keeping ourselves and our family healthy, social distancing, cleaning and sanitizing and besides that, many have lost income and are experiencing financial stress.

EFT is a wonderful tool to help with fear and stressful times. Below is a tapping script example for releasing fears and stress.

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To use essential oils with EFT, just put a couple drops of the essential oil on your fingertips and on the karate chop point before you begin tapping. The oil will be carried to all the other points as you tap.

Start with Valor and tap through the points. Valor is beautiful oil. It smells great and it helps with when you need a shot of courage. Valor, as the name implies, is an oil blend that is very strengthening emotionally. Something we really need these days.

Side of the Hand:
Even though I have all this fear in my stomach and I am stressed out about everything that is going on with Corona virus, I choose to love and accept myself.
Even though I have all this fear in my stomach and I am afraid of where this is heading, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I am full of fear because this is affecting so many things, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.

Starting at eyebrow point:

It’s so crazy out there.
Things changed so suddenly.
I have all this fear in the pit of my stomach
This is affecting everything.
I have all this fear in my stomach
I am really stressed out and afraid.
I’m am afraid someone in my family will get this virus.
I’m worried _____________. (continue on a bit with some specifics you have been stressing about, then continue.)
Fear about all kinds of things.
Fear about the economy.
Fear about not having enough income.
Fear about getting the things I need for my family.
It’s already affecting my income.
Who knows how long this will last.
What kind of things will be affected.
Look at what’s happening already.
This fear in the pit of my stomach.
I have all these fears inside.
What’s going to happen?
How will all of this end up?
All this fear in my stomach.
I have all these uncomfortable feelings.
Everything is changing.
This is so scary.
I choose to release it. (Here is a good add some Release essential oil to your fingertips)
Releasing the fear of all these scary changes.
Releasing all of the fear.
Releasing all of the anger.
Releasing all of the anxiety.
Releasing all of the worry.
Releasing all of the stress.
I know these are stressful times and I know I may need to tap every day.
Things keep changing.
Releasing the fear of all these scary changes.
Releasing the stress.
Releasing the stress.
Releasing the stress.
I have this side hustle with my network marketing business.
I had the idea to get my products wholesale, then, maybe earn a little extra income to cover the cost of my products.
This side hustle could be a big help.
It gives me a bit of control.
Plus, I will be along side others who are in the same situation.
Dealing with the changes going on and finding a way to help our situation.
We have all kinds of products people need right now.
Cleaning products and things to support a healthy body.
I’m releasing the doubts about that.
Releasing this fear and worry.
Releasing them at a cellular level.
Allowing myself to know we will get through this together.
We are in this together.
We can DO THIS TOGETHER!
These products have changed my life in so many ways.
I really want to share with my friends.
It’s actually fun when we do this together.
My success benefits other people as well.
It’s a win-win situation
I choose to allow peace.
I choose to allow a lot of success.
I have what it takes.
It’s time for something new.
I allow myself to thrive,
And I know there are people cheering me on.
I am releasing the fear and allowing myself to heal.
Releasing any remaining self doubt.
I am attracting all kinds of wonderful things to me
I am full of courage and confidence.
I am moving forward with courage.
Filled with courage.
Every cell in my body is filling with courage and confidence.

Take a deep breath.

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Tapping for Holding Back From Speaking Up

Do you ever find yourself holding back when opportunities arise to speak about your products or the business? Sometimes we get in our own way and make things feel larger than they need to be.
Think about all the times you shared your favorite recipe, a movie you really enjoyed or if something really helped you in some way. It’s easy to talk about. Your business and your product use should feel the same way.

When we are selling the product, it somehow feels different but if you just shift your mindset a bit, you can make it feel as natural and easy.

Don’t be afraid to say you sell the product. “Yes, I sell these products. They have helped my family so much I decided I needed to earn enough to cover my oil habit. It ended up growing into a full time career.” 😉

Or, “I love these products so much and I can’t live without them so I decided to sell them and earn a little extra income. Who knows how far it can go. Hey! Why not join me and we can do this together. What fun we could have working together supporting our family’s physical and financial health!”

Don’t make it feel weird, just matter of fact. No worries if they do not want to join you. They may down the line. Keep reminding them by using the product front of them and even sharing something that will help them. Not salesy, just sharing.

It is really important that you really believe in your product and business. Find a product you LOVE! I know some people can sell anything but most of us are not that way but we DO love talking about things we love. For me, essential oils was easy because I LOVE things that smell good. Years ago, when I began my business, did NOT know that most of the scented perfumes and candles were full of toxic chemicals. Thankfully I have learned and replaced the toxic products with healthy ones, but for me, that’s not what makes me feel joy and want to talk about it. It’s the way I can lift the mood with just a drop of oil. It’s playing with making my own skin care products it’s so many fun things I can’t list them all. Find what brings you joy and talk it up. 😉

If you have products that help people strengthen their health or immune system, replace toxic chemicals and have healthier options, there is a mission in that. People need to know there are better option.

Whatever you need to do, refocus on WHY you’re doing this business and what you LOVE about the product.

It’s true, there are times when you need a little help. This is where I like to do a little tapping to get my mind focused on what I intend for growing the business.

Here is some tapping to help release the fear of speaking up:

If you are using essential oils with your tapping session, add the oils to your fingertips and tap through the points. It really does not matter which points you tap. Just tap through the points focusing on the words and feelings.
I love using Valor for courage to speak up. Other oil blends that are good with this EFT session on belief are Abundance, Acceptance, Gathering, Magnify Your Purpose, Motivation, Release.

Side of the Hand:
Even though I’m holding myself back from speaking up about my products (or the business),
I deeply and completely love and accept myself.
Even though I’m holding back from taking action, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.
Even though I’m holding back from sharing the awesome products and business I have, I deeply and completely love and forgive myself.

Starting at eyebrow point:
I keep stopping myself from talking about my products.
I keep holding back.
I LOVE my products but I keep holding back.
I know they will benefit from them like I have.
I have all these fears inside,
I fear they will reject me.
What if they hate network marketing?
What if they think I am stupid for being in a network marketing business?
I hate feeling like a sales person.
I have all these uncomfortable feelings.
Why do I feel that way?
I LOVE these products.
They have changed my life in so many ways.
I love how I feel.
I really want to share with my friends.
I have no problem talking about a movie I loved, or a recipe I love or even a product I love.
My earning a commission from products I share should not feel yucky!
I love these products so much I decided to earn a little extra money selling them.
It’s not weird at all.
Plus, It’s actually fun when we do this together.
It’s not weird to talk about the products I LOVE!
I have decided to stop making it feel uncomfortable.
I release the emotional attachment to holding back.
I release the emotional attachment to fear of rejection.
If I asked a friend out for coffee and they said they couldn’t do it right now, do I feel rejected?
NO!
It’s not rejection of me!
I release the emotional attachment to holding back sharing the good things I have.
I release the emotional attachment to holding back sharing the products I LOVE!

I am open to talking about a product that I actually sell.
I love it so much I wanted to sell it!
There is nothing weird about that.
Letting go of any old ideas that holds me back from speaking about a product I love.
Releasing any ideas that told me it wasn’t okay to talk about a product I love,
just because I happen to sell it.
I had a fear they would think I was only trying to sell to them so I didn’t speak up,
but I am THANKFUL someone shared with me.
It has changed my life!
I’m letting that old way of thinking go now.
I’m releasing that way of thinking go now.
I’m releasing the emotional attachment to that way of thinking go now.
I now know it’s okay to talk about a product I sell.
I’ll just say, “I loved these products so much I decided to sell them and earn a little extra income to pay for my oily habit.”
Nothing uncomfortable or weird about that at all.
I’m releasing any fear of sharing what I LOVE!

I delight in sharing what I LOVE.
I love talking about it.
I love rolling oils on people
I love taking action.
I love helping my friends.
I love sharing.
I radiate confidence.
I am full of passion.
I love how confident I am feeling.

Take a deep breath.

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